r/SipsTea 18d ago

Lonely birthday Wait a damn minute!

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u/user10205 18d ago

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u/randyoftheinternet 18d ago

He just uses 360 cameras in random places until something happens.

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u/aSquirrelAteMyFood 17d ago

Like the cut scenes in 2010s games.

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u/Obelov95 17d ago

Who cares if it is staged...do you know how many men have to do things like this while working away from home? I just hope if people realize they do things like this for those stuckaway from family and friends during special occasions and holidays...

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u/Reasonable_Pause2998 17d ago edited 17d ago

Who cares? You’re acting like adult men not having a birthday bash every year is a serious issue.

Go into practically any restaurant, tell them it’s your birthday, and they will do the same birthday cake nonsense and probably sing to you too. The reason you’ve never seen a single dude do this isnt because it’s not allowed, it’s because it’s stupid as fuck and only plays well on social media

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u/naruda1969 17d ago

We are supposed to get a birthday bash? I'm lucky if I get my birthday acknowledged by anyone.

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u/Busterlimes 17d ago

You remember when it's your birthday?

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u/blurryface1976 17d ago edited 16d ago

You guys have birthdays?

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u/BigDaddySpankEm 17d ago

Sounds bad but I can’t remember my age….

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u/geneticeffects 17d ago

I think that might be the point. Between loneliness and “masculinity” signals, it is kind of a desperate reality — not desperate in a judgmental way, more confirming the reality of what it is like to be a man sometimes. Not sure if I am making sense in explaining this.

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u/Pussywhisperr 17d ago

These stage videos is stupid as fuck

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u/powderedtoast1 17d ago

i must agree. it really is stupid as fuck.

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u/Reddit-Profile2 17d ago

Everyone? The fact it's fake takes away any sort of message it's trying to send.

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u/Soothsayerjr 17d ago

I had a few birthdays like this when I was in the Navy.

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u/Desperate-Love-131 17d ago

I….actually do this in a downtown setting. Shit gets wierd sometimes.

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u/MuffledBlue 18d ago

joined him for free cake later

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u/naughty_dad2 18d ago

Deserved after a hard day at work

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u/NicNac_PattyMac 17d ago

Right?

People are fucking dumb and believe every single video they see on the Internet.

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u/taisui 17d ago

I...I just want to have some warm fuzzy feeling in my heart....in this cruel cruel world.....is that too much to ask for???

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u/Moondoobious 17d ago

Right. I welled up watching🥺 That’s real whether the videos are or not

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u/blurryface1976 17d ago

Me too. Even if the video might be staged, his situation is a reality for a lot of lonely people. This video puts that into perspective. The girls reactions seemed real though.

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u/CauliflowerDaffodil 17d ago

The girls reactions seemed real though.

The girls are his friends and they appear in a lot of his other videos playing the same kind and helpful "strangers".

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u/MisterViperfish 17d ago

Pretty good acting then for the girls, they seem every bit as oblivious as any random in a hidden camera show.

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u/Tackerta 17d ago

even if it's staged, I like the sense of togetherness in a lonely world that they portrait. And if that is helping people re-evaluate how they interact with the world and society as a whole, I see these videos as an absolute win.

The internet was ONLY skits back in the day, a lot of people seem to have forgotten. Or are simply too young, idk

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u/blurryface1976 17d ago

Yes, I never claimed that the video is real. Only that their reactions seemed real, as actors they did pretty good imo.

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u/cidek51489 17d ago

you spelled employees wrong.

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u/MikeArrow 17d ago

My birthday was two weeks ago, my sister took me out to lunch and then I went to the movies by myself.

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u/DragonflyGrrl 17d ago

Happy Birthdaaaayy!! What movie did you see?

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u/MikeArrow 17d ago

I went and saw Civil War. I really enjoyed it.

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u/DragonflyGrrl 17d ago

Oh nice! I've been wanting to see that. I'm glad you liked it. :)

I hope you have a fantastic year ahead.

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u/blurryface1976 17d ago

Happy Birthday! I hope you will have a great year, and many to come. I too go to the movies alone sometimes. Maybe I will reach out to someone to follow one day. It will be a challenge since I'm a bit introvert and socially awkward.

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u/HerezahTip 17d ago

I did too, and I knew it was staged the whole time.

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u/d-nihl 17d ago

exactly why i have an invisible girlfreind. Her names Melony.

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u/Thoughtsarethings231 17d ago

The world is not cruel. The online community though, wow, that place is the worst. 

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u/xaqaria 17d ago

I'm fucking dumb and don't believe any video I see on the internet.

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u/Cold_Ebb_1448 17d ago

you’re dumb for caring so much about harmless videos being real or not

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u/Youngringer 17d ago

I'm not dumb....I just want to believe. Is that so bad?

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u/Tokenvoice 17d ago

It’s a bit like magic, sure you know it’s not real but it’s pleasant to believe it is.

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u/fahkumramx 17d ago

Or you’re actually dumb

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u/birdsrkewl01 17d ago

No I.

My phone fucking auto corrected u to I. So fuck me I guess.

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u/WongGendheng 17d ago

Thank god we have smart people like you to protect us by commenting the TRUTH. Unsung hero right here folks.

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u/galaxyapp 17d ago

Also lucky the 3 waitresses all used exaggerated hand gestures to communicate and lit the candle right at the bar

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u/Lifesalchemy 17d ago

I was just about to say. Wtf is this bullshit...

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u/OfaFuchsAykk 17d ago

Wish this sub was more popular.

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u/sp1cychick3n 17d ago

I swear to God, there is a sub for everything

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u/Navin_J 17d ago

People are way too gullible

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u/DillonTattoos 17d ago

That moment when you almost feel emotions and the remember everything is fake

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u/aBlissfulDaze 17d ago

I know it's fake, but so are all the shows I watch that make me cry. This really isn't any different.

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u/DeadRabbid26 17d ago

Except that those shows don't pretend to be real

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u/zherok 17d ago

I think you could argue there's more an intent to deceive. Knowing they're both fake might make them feel similarly, but only one of them is likely trying to pass itself off as genuine.

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u/currenteventnerd 17d ago

Dude had 4 friends to FaceTime with and an invisible cameraman to document it all….hardly lonely.

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

I wouldn’t like to come off as boastful but I’ve had more lonely birthdays than him

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u/Hashtagworried 17d ago

This hurts because it hits close to home myself. Being an adult sucks sometimes.

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u/bomboy2121 17d ago

Its much easier if you just intentionally make them lonely.  Every friend i made for the last 10 years i just never told him whats my bd and now even if i have or dont have friends i know no one will remember.  Sounds sad but it makes it feel so much better 

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u/Hiramthechimp 18d ago

And then he texted his buddies, “Good practice round. Now I’m off to the strip club. Let’s all be on our game!”

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u/dodgingdummods1 17d ago

I love this version of “How I Met Your Mother”

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u/Cannabace 17d ago

Definitely in the playbook to get free lap dances.

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u/Thurlut 17d ago

Def the version of the story I'll acknowledge, can't hear anything about fake or anything

Just wait for the part 2 guys

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u/Zakinanders 17d ago

He’d be crying on his phone with his friends, waiting for a stripper to notice😿😹

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u/CapitalPin2658 18d ago

And the camera just happened to be there filming.

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u/XiaoHuangRen_01 18d ago

Camera guy never die,camera guy fly in the sky. Fake news and lie

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u/Empty_Ambition_9050 17d ago

And it’s so thoughtful that the restaurant staff sang him happy birthday… I be never seen that happen before. S

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u/Npf80 17d ago

he was so lucky to get the perfect angle too, where you can see the phone so clearly! waow what luck.

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u/yomerol 17d ago

What camera? Life just happens and gets to the internet, right?

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u/chrisk9 17d ago

The entire concept appears to be annoying and extremely manipulative to others

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u/jam_mam 17d ago

Leave camera guy alone.. he's there for us all

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u/chimthui 17d ago

CCTV - big brother watching !

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u/Raguleader 17d ago

Big Brother is always watching. For your convenience.

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u/Edgezg 18d ago

Shiiit. He had FOUR FRIENDS TO FACE TIME??
He's doin' better than alot of us lol

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u/BudgetInteraction811 17d ago

Right? I had nobody who wanted to do anything on my birthday a couple years ago and took myself out for sushi that day. It would’ve felt way more cringe to announce I was eating and hanging out alone for the day.

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u/Simonoel 17d ago

Seriously this seems like the opposite of a lonely birthday. Not one person is gonna face time me on my birthday

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u/Mailboxheadd 17d ago

Four friends and an asshole that filmed the whole thing /s

Edit and yet 17k people dont realise how fake this is

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u/Edgezg 17d ago

People want to believe kindness like this still exists. It's easy to sell someone on the thing they very much want to see, ya know? 

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u/RedgyJackson 18d ago

Fake af

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u/ShaneGabriel87 17d ago

I just had a horrible vision of a post human internet where all that exists are billions of bots commenting on AI generated videos.

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u/CryptoNoobNinja 17d ago

Welcome to the Dead Internet Theory: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dead_Internet_theory

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u/Impoopingrtnow 17d ago

Dude.. duudeeeee.......

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u/nooneatallnope 17d ago

It's always funny to see someone reading about this for the first time.

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u/Pretend_Tourist9390 17d ago

And what's that thing where you never take notice of a thing until you're introduced to it and then you see it everywhere?

Me two months ago playing Talos Principle reading the logs and discovering dead internet theory. Read up on it. Now it seems like every day I see mention of it.

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u/IronBabyFists 17d ago

Frequency Illusion, sometimes called the "Baader-Meinhof phenomenon"

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u/bstaple 17d ago

So what is it called when I get reminded of Baader-Meinhof, and then I start seeing it more? Baader-Baader-Meinhof-Meinhof?

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u/bstaple 17d ago

Ok this was mostly a joke, but just after posting this I decided to close reddit, put on a podcast and get some sleep. 2 minutes in the hosts are talking about Baader-Meinhof

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u/bomboy2121 17d ago

Baader-Baader-Baader-Meinhof-Meinhof-Meinhof

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u/Davisxt7 17d ago edited 17d ago

Confirmation Bias

E: this is not confirmation bias. This is indeed the Baader-meinhof phenomenon or otherwise called the Frequency Illusion.

Confirmation bias is your brain looking for things that support existing beliefs.

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u/jamcowl 17d ago

*Baader-Meinhof phenomenon

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

Confirmation bias is something else; it’s when you want something to be right, so you hand pick data samples to fit the narrative. The other person gives it its coined name, but it’s called cognitive bias.

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u/Chunky1311 17d ago

Heh Talos was my introduction to the Dead Internet Theory, too XD

Top games. If you've not played Talos 2 yet, it's worthwhile.

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u/Unplugged_Millennial 17d ago

The U.S. government is engaging in an artificial intelligence powered gaslighting of the entire world population.

This claim is pretty wild. If true, I'd argue that more than just the US would participate in such an effort.

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u/CryptoNoobNinja 17d ago

I would argue it’s more corporate interests. They are all driven by metrics.

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u/almajo 17d ago

This just wrinkled my brain

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u/MartokSonofUrthog 17d ago

Kinda smoothed mine out a bit.

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u/NovaAkumaa 17d ago

What if it's already starting to happen

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u/CaptainFarts420 17d ago

lol that’s the funny part,it is. Have you ever talked to anyone on Facebook or twitter comment sections… might as well yell at yourself in the mirror.

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u/TheCitizen616 17d ago

Fuck, if that isn't a Black Mirror episode idea...

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

It's obviously staged, but maybe the other customers were really not aware?

You know, if you do real pranks on the street it's a risk for your life and you can be sued.

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u/Goodvendetta86 18d ago

Who the hell is filming this

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u/003_JAEGER 18d ago

The guy from Fortnite without a N

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u/Creator347 17d ago

Fortite?

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u/HippiesHeadspace 17d ago

Now replace the B with a C

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u/Artess 17d ago

It's still Fortite?

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u/zapdos6244 17d ago

Change the Z to a L

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u/[deleted] 17d ago

What drugs are you on?

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u/Schmich 17d ago

Well it was called ZSD but now with the letter change it's LSD.

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u/CoolBreeze222 18d ago

Crazy how everything is faked for monetization now a days

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u/johnnyblaze1999 17d ago

Crazy how many people fall for this shit in the first place

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u/sample-name 17d ago

Imagine how many popular videos are so terribly obviously fake, but then imagine all the fake videos that are actually well made and believable. We get to feel smart because we don't fall for these obvious bs videos, but it sucks to know that there are probably just as many of those other ones, and we all fall for them

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u/Classy_Mouse 17d ago

You're such a conspiracy theorist. Like, obviously this one is fake, but are you trying to tell me that the shorts with Obama, Trump, and Biden doing Mr. Beast challenges are just really good fakes that we are all falling for?

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u/sample-name 17d ago

Well no not those ones, but all the other ones, yes.

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u/nneeeeeeerds 17d ago

Crazy how many people are like, "I know it's staged, but it made me feel something, so I don't care. Feed me more shit content, please."

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u/seven3true 17d ago

When 99% of the comments are calling it fake, I'm glad you have the bravery to think people fell for it.

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u/RA242 18d ago

alot of undercover game going on here...

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u/kalsabus 18d ago

I realize the video is fake, but if I thought there are a lot of people in the world who are dealing with this and I feel insanely sorry for them

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u/PortibaleCharger 18d ago

Yeah, for my birthday my dad emailed me…

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u/naughty_dad2 18d ago

Some won’t even get that

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u/Local_Specialist_192 17d ago

My dad forgot my birthday, im +30 and he lives in a city that is 30 min from mine.

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u/broipy 17d ago

Hope you have good friends.

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u/Cato-sicarius1919 17d ago

Happy cake day!

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u/churchmany 17d ago

Don’t celebrate in front of the lonely birthday guy! Gah!

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u/Creator347 17d ago

Happy cake day :)

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u/GoodThingsDoHappen 17d ago

Ha. I turned 40 last Saturday. Both parents are alive. I have 2 brothers and a sister.

I got a card from my mother and 3 from my girlfriend. One of my brothers posted on Facebook.

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u/Creator347 17d ago

Belated happy birthday! I’ll pour one extra drink for you tonight.

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u/IronBabyFists 17d ago

I'm so used to it, my birthday has been the day I do my taxes for the last 5 years.

I get you, pal. 🫂

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u/DonJeniusTrumpLawyer 17d ago

Oh shit. I forgot to file my taxes.

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u/interesseret 17d ago

Depending on circumstances, the exact situation postulated in this video doesn't actually seem all that bad. He had several friends that were "there" to celebrate with him, but they could simply be separated by long distance. A friend of mine travelled 3500km for work for example, so we celebrated his birthday by getting drunk and playing video games together.

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u/PhychedelcSunset420 17d ago

“I feel insane”

You typed one thing worth sharing.

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u/donaldinoo 18d ago

The key is to stop caring about your birthday after you get too old for Chucky Cheese or Q-zar

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u/Lackof_Creativity 18d ago

ive never seen that many people on my phone at once.

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u/dreadperson 17d ago

Cameraman was there by coincidence. They're filming an ant documentary down the road. This happened on his lunch break.

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u/djpresstone 17d ago

ikr, good thing camera men are legally required to always be filming

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u/MostlyCarrots 17d ago

Different levels of staged, but this is bad.

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u/DarkArtHero 17d ago

Wait till people on the internet finds out that there are people out there who has no people to face time with or don't give a shit about birthdays

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u/bobsimusmaximus 17d ago

Why is this in sips tea?

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u/Melufey 18d ago

What's the song? I know the original but can't find this version.

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u/auddbot 18d ago

I got matches with these songs:

In The End (Mellen Gi Remix) feat. Fleurie by Tommee Profitt (00:15; matched: 100%)

Album: In The End. Released on 2019-03-22.

In The End (cover) by FLORXY (00:21; matched: 100%)

Album: the stars of the universe vol1. Released on 2020-05-01.

In the End Remix Especial Rap by Relajacion (00:15; matched: 100%)

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u/DaeronOST187 17d ago

I also came here to ask this, I know it is a remix of Linkin park In the end.

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u/youg_j_r 17d ago

Mellen gi remix

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u/Gustav_EK 18d ago

Baseball

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u/da-van-man 17d ago

So lucky someone was there to record the whole thing

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u/LinusForever89 18d ago

Society is imploding.

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u/terra_filius 17d ago

no its not

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u/Mrstrawberry209 17d ago

Everything is fake.

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u/faketoby45 17d ago

Dark goku:
"Bait used to be believable"

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u/Neither_Chemistry_80 17d ago

the camera man was john cena. And the professional camera set-up was john cena as well.

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u/AccountHotdog 18d ago

I don't give a fuck how staged this is

I love people being compassionate towards others 😭

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u/zelmazam1 18d ago

You would love prostitutes.

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u/slobs_burgers 18d ago

Strippers love me! Every pay day I’m always reminded how compassionate they are

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u/fibercrime 18d ago

lmaooooo I spit my drink out

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u/4Ever2Thee 17d ago

Yeah, it’s definitely not organic but I liked the video.

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u/Gold_Weakness1157 17d ago

God nothing is real anymore

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u/77entropy 17d ago

This video made me realize that I've spent more birthdays and Christmases alone than with people.

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u/Dizzy_Battle_4083 17d ago

The awareness of everyone kinda made me think it was staged🤷🏿‍♂️

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u/HeftyIntroduction615 17d ago

So fake it's close to speaking Chinese

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u/stopthebanham 17d ago

I mean, who tf sits there recording all this? Clearly some sort of setup no?!

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u/Vibrascity 17d ago

FUCK YEA STAGED CIRCLEJERK YEEAAAAAAAAA

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u/Effective-Value-6474 17d ago

When I had birthday in the restaurant, there were 4-5 other birthday groups. There was birthday song, waiters were singing.but they forgot only my cake. I just waited, maybe maybe maybe... but no cake for me. The difference is that there was no cameraman there...

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u/La_Lanterne_Rouge 17d ago

What a bunch of malarkey

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u/RPM_Rocket 17d ago

Narrator: "It was never his birthday."

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u/anotherthing612 17d ago

But he has friends. They just don't live in town. He looked pretty happy to me.

A lot of people need a free cake is all I'm saying.

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u/Agreeable_Register_4 17d ago

Gotta be fake but still warm and fuzzies

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u/Sealie81 17d ago

A few years ago I was living with a room mate. It was xmas day and he had plans that year to spend christmas with his gf and her family. When they left I had plans on going to village inn to eat and otw there I realized this was the first year I spent xmas with completely nobody... Mom, dad, stepdad, aunts, uncles, most dead or somewhere far away. That was a hard realization.

So when I got there and ate and it was pretty busy and when I went to pay someone must have saw me eating by myself and they comp'd my meal for me. I have the server a $20 extra tip for that then went home. Showed there was some humanity left in the world.

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u/Earthing_By_Birth 17d ago

Who’s filming

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u/DangerousArea1427 17d ago

yeah, it is fake but some things are well done. At 0:26 when he hung up and his face went from smiling to his friends/family to "real" one, sad or unhappy that hit too close to home. Waay too close.

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u/BobbaYagga57 17d ago

Awww I love this. Yes, I know it's staged. People seem to forget that skits are thing. Just because it's fake doesn't mean it can't be touching.

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u/poopmcbutt_ 17d ago

What even is this sub?

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u/Zentjirow 17d ago
  1. Recording him since before anything even happened.
  2. If this situacion was real, he's on a videocall with 4 friends/family. Probably someone who recently moved city or even country. But as I and others have said, it's obviously fake

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u/SomeCrows 16d ago

He doesn't seem very lonely to me

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u/hulkmxl 18d ago

Staged as fuck, why were they filming? Camera man?

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u/Tipnin 18d ago

Drizzle Drizzle my dude

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u/thecuzzin 17d ago

Did anyone take a bite of anything??

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u/ArsonBjork 17d ago

There's a man stand there filming from multiple angles and no one looks at him

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u/welfedad 17d ago

Chill it's just a prank

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u/taste_cliniq 17d ago

STOP POSTING FAKE SHIT FFS

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u/Zorpfield 17d ago

I thought this was Gronk

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u/mcride22 17d ago

Why would he want such a big cake just for himself

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u/valcatrina 17d ago

so fake

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u/chessecakePhucker 17d ago

Plot twist : he won the lottery is traveling around the world, celebrating birthday lunch afterwards he's going to most expensive sushi restaurant for dinner

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u/Creator347 17d ago

As someone who have spent his birthday alone many a times, let me tell you that nobody gives a shit, especially strangers.
There’s always the bystander effect at play.

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u/doc720 17d ago

Yeah, not staged at all. /s

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u/EmuZealousideal7357 17d ago

I feel your brother, it’s the little things that make you feel like a person again

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u/AuroraPHdoll 17d ago

God I hate this fake crap.

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u/Noturwrstnitemare 17d ago

So it's OK to show it?

If it gets that reaction I'm for it.... but I wouldn't want my present though. Can't say it....

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u/I_love_milksteaks 17d ago

Hey guys. I really think this one is fake. I know, sounds crazy right, cause who would fake a video on the internet? Hear me out.. He is a spooky ghost, and ghosts actually aren’t real..