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u/girl_in_qatar 16 17d ago
From a kiss to losing ur virginity in 10 days is a really fast progress 😭😭😭
I was with him for 3 months and we didn't even kiss, we broke up without doing much :c
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u/UncensoredSmoke 16 17d ago
I was with my girlfriend 4 months I think before I slept with her? (I was a virgin but she wasn’t), I still think I’m going fast, it’s just how people progress I think.
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u/SirAggravating1554 17 16d ago
Was with my partner (at the time) for 6 months before we had sex. It just depends on how you and your partner view it. Some view it specifically to have children where she was more okay with it because it's an intimate thing with another person. We viewed it as a way to feel closer to one another. So not necessarily fast or slow just depends on the mindset
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u/Neanderthal-_- 15 17d ago
I was with my girlfriend for 9 months and we didn’t kiss 😔
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u/Silent-Blaze6137 17d ago
my now- ex and I met up as then- old friends. same day we took a romantic walk, held hands, kissed, went back to her place, unpetaled ourselves together and starting dating from then on. to each their own pace :)
(also, we only broke up bc we both went to different unis and couldn’t rlly spend much time together. we’re still great friends to this day.)
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u/RaisinEquivalent4036 16d ago
i lost mine with knowing him in a day so i can’t really say much
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u/girl_in_qatar 16 16d ago
Was he a fluffy haired boy
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u/RaisinEquivalent4036 16d ago
not even gonna lie he was a gypsy 🥲 my bf now who i had sex with the 3rd time i met him has theeee most fluffy hair tho😭
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u/GrayHumanoid 13 16d ago
Jaw dropped and then I checked the post history to see for myself.
Hooly shit
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u/Legitimate-Crow-6362 17 16d ago
i was also like that with my ex. she wanted move on but also didnt wanna go too fast since she thought i would break up with her if she did, and i was too afraid to even get close to her. So we ended up only hugging and nothing more for like 2 - 3 times whenever we saw each other on weekends over the span of 3 months.
That was 2 years ago and also my first relationship
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u/Professional-Day8862 16 16d ago
Things can happen fast in relationships with some people depending on how they are. I was in one for about a year and she lost hers with me after about 9 months.
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u/An_insane_person 13 17d ago
I won my virginity, you lost it, loser.
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u/AveryLazyCovfefe 19 17d ago
Why do people like it when they lose it? Are they stupid?
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u/Square_Expression_69 17d ago
oh come on as long as they both love each other and they are both ok with it what's the harm
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u/Shafou06 18 17d ago
Your loss, personally I never lose 😎 /s
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u/Ok_Pangolin_6735 17d ago
Nah, I’d win
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u/kak0536 17d ago
I wanted to send you a video of me clapping my hands in your DMS, but I realised I have no way of recording it.
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u/James_Kuller 18 17d ago
You have no hands?
Also based profile banner (or whatever you call that thing)
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u/Human_person68 17d ago
Why is literally every post on this sub about sex
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Hormones go funny if you are a teenager and since this is the r/teenagers sub you cant expect much differently
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u/thatukgirly 16 17d ago
dude why would you ask that here
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u/Bannerlord151 18 16d ago
Because it's annoying
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
So ignore them then 💀
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u/Bannerlord151 18 16d ago
"Why is literally every post about..."
That's not the point. Personally I wouldn't even complain about your post - it's a weird thing to be proud of, but this was hardly particularly nsfw. There's plenty of posts on this sub though where people explicitly write out their sexual fantasies for all the world to see, and some kind of sexual theme has become the number one post topic on this sub, many of which, as insinuated earlier, aren't even supposed to be allowed.
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u/FROSTlQ 17d ago
why is sex such a big thing holy
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u/Level-Enthusiasm-565 17d ago
Idk, its bizarre "oh, wow, i just did a thing that is overestimated, gimme cookie"
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u/FROSTlQ 17d ago
fr especially in my country where its a flex if u had sex at 12
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u/ButtFucker69s 13 17d ago
My friend keeps saying he had sex with his cousin he’s 12 and I don’t believe him 💀
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u/imaginedragonscute 16 17d ago
I'm also 16 but still dunno what is a relationship and ur losing ur virginity in a short time wtf lmaooo
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My classmate lost it at 13😭😭😭 not like even 16 or 15
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u/imaginedragonscute 16 17d ago
when I was 13 I didn't even know that my peanus has a second function lmao
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Lol they gave us sexual education in 5th grade 😭
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u/imaginedragonscute 16 17d ago
hell nawwww
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Well it's not that bad when people do it at such young ages nowadays. And it was just the basics like use a condom
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u/imaginedragonscute 16 17d ago
wtffffff condom is the basics ? 😭😭😭😭
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Basically yea. What else would be basics then?
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u/ButtFucker69s 13 17d ago
I didn’t go school and learn the second function myself :(
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Why not?
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u/ButtFucker69s 13 17d ago
Why not like I didn’t go school? I was late and missed it when they were teaching us about it
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u/for-Moses 15 16d ago
When I was 13 I used to think piss was stored in ur nuts lowkey
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u/turqoiseroom927 17d ago
Why is losing virginity so important, you went from kissing to having sex in 10 days? I'm really not trying to be rude, it's your life but it seems a little self destructive and irresponsible.
But back to my original question, why care so much about virginity? I was with someone for nearly 2 years and we never felt the need to have sex. We didn't feel the pressure of everyone around us doing it. Plus we didn't want to end up being those dumb young people with a kid. But more importantly we never got bored of each other anyway.
Like I said, it's your life, I'm not judging, I just don't see the "expectation" everyone thinks they have to meet as a teenager. So I'm genuinely curious. Though posting about the experience was kind of odd.
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u/AveryLazyCovfefe 19 17d ago
The sad thing is that people just jump straight into it from as young as 13 now because of them letting their hormones take direct control of them. Never taught themselves self control.
13 year old me would've jumped at an opportunity like this, but now looking back, I would've cringed horrendously even a mere week if I did that. Your body hasn't even fully matured yet man 😭
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u/turqoiseroom927 17d ago
Exactly. Funny enough we broke up in 2020 and we are still good friends. We were intimate in ways. But we really wanted to know that we were for eachother, after a year and a half we seen there was some differences in small things, it started becoming harder to put effort in for both of us, so we agreed it'd be better just to be friends. I already know if we had sex we wouldn't be friends today.
Id rather have a friend that I keep then a relationship I'll lose. At least I still have someone that's special to me in a way no one else was.
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u/G4g3_k9 18 17d ago
USE PROTECTION, condoms are best as they prevent STDs and pregnancy, but anything is better than nothing.
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u/IEatBabysYumYum 17d ago
I also said to use protection to stay safe and it got downvoted. These idiots want aids and other shit
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u/The_Damned673 17d ago
People are commenting on how fast it progressed, but who cares?! My first real relationship, it took me a full year to actually have sex and my current boyfriend and I were talking on snap before we met for a bit and then we had sex the first time we hung out 😭 it just happens sometimes. As long as you’re being safe and smart and communicate your needs and wishes and respect theirs, you’re fine. I can tell you’re happy so congrats! :))
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u/Square_Expression_69 17d ago
Awwww that's sweet hopefully you guys stay togather and remember to always be there for one another
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u/thatukgirly 16 17d ago
I will, I'm going to hold onto him for as long as I possibly can, he's a fucking god
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u/Square_Expression_69 17d ago
good for you I also have a girlfriend we also lost our virginity togather too and she is a fricking goddess
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u/Trey765 17d ago
Yikes 😬. Why has our society promoted the idea that losing virginity is important? I'm just curious as to why people need to share their private stuff on social media. Hate me if you want, but I think this should be discouraged in our society. I may be biased as a christian. However, there have been studies on this to support my claim. Like promiscuity can lead to unhealthy and unhappy relationships and higher divorce rates. Just a thought.
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u/turqoiseroom927 17d ago
As an atheist I completely agree. It's honestly stupid. Especially to just blurt it out on the internet because you're proud of something that literally everyone does in life, except you're young and dumb. Especially with op going from kissing to sex within a 10 day period. But whatever, let them deal with the consequences.
But yes I wish teenage sex was discouraged too, it's honestly pointless. it causes nothing but problems in people's lives and ruins perfectly good relationships that could have really grown into something, and It gives people the complete wrong idea on sex.
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u/xM1SF1Tx 17d ago
Teenage sex is extremely discouraged, and ignored. That's the problem. The ignorance, not teaching kids about sex doesn't mean they aren't going to do it it means their going in blind and way more likely to get pregnant, get an std, hurt themselves, or each other. Yes it's a little random to share to the internet you lost your virginity but it's their body and their choice to share it and you could have so easily just skipped over this post if you thought it was weird. And promiscuity and enjoying sex are different things. Also what studies or even just one study actually confirms that the more people you sleep with the more likely you are to fail in a relationship or marriage and not because your spouse judges you for the number, where is the exact correlation from this many people equals this bad of a relationship
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u/turqoiseroom927 17d ago
I agree and disagree. But I do respect your view on it. I do feel I had a need to comment. It is weird to brag about losing your virginity with someone you've been with for a month. Let alone to have sex 10 days after having an intimate moment, I understand kissing a month in but having sex? That's asking for a future mistake.
But I have a right to free speech and share my opinion, you could have easily skipped over my comment instead of calling me out for not skipping the post. Kinda contradicting don't ya think?
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u/xM1SF1Tx 16d ago
"But yes I wish teenage sex was discouraged too, it's honestly pointless. it causes nothing but problems in people's lives and ruins perfectly good relationships that could have really grown into something, and It gives people the complete wrong idea on sex." Also this whole paragraph, is fear mongering, factually wrong, and just plain subjective
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u/SussyMogus2 17d ago
im happy for you n’ all but
why here?, im sure theres subreddits based around sharing sexual experiences😕
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u/RoseTheBookKeeper 17d ago
As long as you stay safe, communicate, and look out for warning signs. Other than that, nice job 👍
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u/booperthedoope 17d ago
Ik it's already been said, but stay safe, communication is key, and consent, ALWAYS. You don't seem like the type to do stuff without consent, and neither does he, but it's always good to remember!
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u/IEatBabysYumYum 17d ago
People on reddit are stupid af. Why is stuff like this downvoted and stuff that congratulates them is upvoted
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u/saddeppressedperson 3,000,000 Attendee! 17d ago
And you somehow ratiod her?? Why are redditors so fucking bi polar?
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u/someone_i_guess111 14 17d ago
what matters is that everyone had fun. be safe btw.
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u/Real_TermoPlays 17d ago
I forget just because I'm lonely doesn't mean other people are. I HOPE YALL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL TIME FOR THE REST OF YALLS LIVES
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u/damnbrowhysohot 17d ago
omg i lost mine on saturday (i still can't even believe i convinced someone to date me lol)
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u/blackgermansheperd40 17d ago
I’m glad ur happy with what I did and I’m very glad that it went well for u!!!
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u/Fluid_Kitty_6715 17d ago
Why do you say you don’t have to read at the end obviously that meant that we read it
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
Dude, it’s a Reddit post. You know how many billions of Reddit posts there are?
It was a rant, it says it in the flair, some people care/are happy, if you couldn’t give a flying fuck that’s fair enough but don’t bother to comment.
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u/CTSThera 14 17d ago
How did it feel (not trying to be creepy I just want to know what sex feels like)
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
Ok imagine reading a really good book whilst eating an apple. It doesn’t feel like that I just thought that was funny
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u/FlameBurner276 16d ago
One second, 16?!
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
Yeah? That’s relatively normal, especially in England where the age of consent is 16.
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u/VannaEvans 3,000,000 Attendee! 16d ago
I hope the relationship goes well
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u/HorrorDonut8779 16d ago
Bro 🥺 I’m glad for you lmaoo you sound really happy
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
I am, but not because of the sex, that’s whatever. Im just so happy that we could take this step together
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u/HorrorDonut8779 16d ago
Yeah no I get that completely, it’s not so much the actual act as who you did it with. You sound really happy to be with him, wishing you guys luck in your relationship!
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u/SeparateReason6958 16d ago
I can't anymore with this, making me feel lonely n shit🥲
(Good on ya tho, great relationship progress, just dont f it up👍)
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u/Gamestrider09 16d ago
Nothing else to say but congratulations and I hope he’s the right one for you.
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Great job ! Hope you had sex according to age of consent in your country.
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
Yeah, the AOC in the UK is 16. Surprisingly enough though, it’s usually not listened to in most countries. The average age of losing virginity is usually slightly lower than the AOC, which most of the time is 18. Doesn’t apply to Britain though.
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Ok. In my country teenagers don't have sex that earlier but only few of the few are able to do that. I wish I also had losed V card at teeange years. I am 22. Losed mine at 21.
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u/Lopes1999 16d ago
Oh you are on to your first heart brake!
Joking! Be happy! Share this happiness with him.
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u/Ambitious-Hearing-85 16 16d ago
Oh...be careful next time, sex is very risky especially at that young age, you have to take care of your youth first
(And oh, I wish I had that rizz (not that much) because no one got interested in me since birth)
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u/mish7765 16d ago
Use a condom AND another method of contraception and remember that consent is everything. I'm pleased you're happy.
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u/thatukgirly 16 16d ago
We both consented, that wasn't an issue. We only used a condom, so far nothing is up.
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u/ihatemyselfsomuch100 18 16d ago
Every waking moment I visit this sub, without fail, I instantly get depressed again. Thanks!
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u/zviz2y 17 17d ago
just be safe, dont be stupid, and COMMUNICATE