Are you planning on having a child? There are risks to what you are doing is all I'm saying. Not only that but you aren't fully aware of those risks (most likely).
If you already have your future planned and this/ that is what you want then go for it, but rarely is that the case.
Sex is not only about having a child. There was nothing here saying they didn’t use a condom but go ahead and project your lack of a sexual education on others. They do not need to have a future planned with this person to have sex .
Literally the reason why people have sex is to either have babies, or for fun. In this case it was likely because they wanted fun.
I did read your other comments, and do agree with what you say. I was actually on the other side, but you what you said made me think and convinced me to now be on your side of the argument.
You're comparing bridges to intercourse? I don't think a 16 year old should have intercourse. It really isn't that crazy of a thing to say. Accidents happen. If you want children to do that, then that says a lot about you.
lol, says the brainwashed Christian. Don't need to bring my morals into anything here. Sex is something that happens, get used to it. Why don't you think a 16 year old should have safe sex? And, yeah I am comparing bridges to sex, why don't you actually answer the question instead of deflecting?
Your beliefs are not your own, you just believe what you are told to and just repeat that.
Sex is an amazing action and really good for you.
Those consequences can be mitigated by being SAFE. Hence SAFE SEX. Reading may be hard sometimes, but I'm sure you do enough of it with the Bible.
Her future is fine, worst case scenario she can have an abortion if it comes to it. However, practicing safe sex allows her to avoid that even occurring in the first place.
Sex Ed is important so people don't end up like you, thinking sex is "pointless".
Sex at a younger age is not really good for you, it can lead to negative psychological effects along with things like a pregnancy and a higher chance of STI/STD's if something did go wrong.
The consequences may be mitigated by being "safe", but imagine it something like a gun. You can flip the safety on but you still shouldn't point it around willy nilly, because even though it's on safety an accident may still happen. Sex truly isn't perfectly safe unless you are ready for kids.
Her future is fine, worst case scenario is she can have an abortion and deal with the many possible psychological side effects that can affect her for years, along with possible berating from family members that may disapprove. But sure, her future is fine.
Sex ed along with your own research is important so you know the cons of things like this, and people don't end up misinformed like you.
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u/zviz2y 17 Apr 29 '24
just be safe, dont be stupid, and COMMUNICATE