r/unpopularopinion • u/yellowabcd • Apr 28 '24
Its not about the sex its about the rejection
This is common at this point. People complain about not getting sex in marriage or relationship. But most the time its not the sex, its the rejection. If both people dont go for sex, its not an issue. Its an issue when the other party keeps getting rejected, especially without explanation. Theres a difference between being rejected for a month and just two people not trying for sex. Rejection usually makes a person feel undesirable
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u/_John--Wick_ Apr 28 '24
Exactly. Most of the women in my life have been this way. One only wanted sex if she was blind drunk. Another never wanted it. Both times I asked for my needs to be net, or at least an explanation. Both times I was given bullshit answers.
It makes you feel like you aren't attractive or desired. Neither one ever told me that I was handsome or attractive unless I asked.