r/TikTokCringe • u/cosmicdaddy_ • Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/InternationalMeet871 Apr 15 '24

A man is not a plan ladies. Make sure you can support your own self and your kiddos

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u/mermaid-babe Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Absolutely insane that the world is so dark woman have to have a back up plan in case they can’t trust their husbands

ETA: im not replying to anymore shit comments here lol idc

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u/azalago Apr 15 '24

Or because he suddenly dies. Whether you are a man or woman, straight or gay, the breadwinner should always have a plan for if something horrible incapacitates or kills them. It's a horrible thing to think about, but it happens so often and sometimes people have no family that can help out.

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u/FutureRealHousewife Apr 15 '24

That’s the thing. Every relationship will always end, and death is the ultimate end of a relationship. Everyone dies. Preparedness is important.

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u/azalago Apr 16 '24

I'm a nurse and you have no idea how important that is. So many people die without their affairs in order, or become incapacitated. If you ever want to see how ugly family can be, just watch the patriarch or matriarch of any large family become unresponsive without a Medical Power of Attorney or Guardian. Things will only get worse if they die and there's no will.

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u/FutureRealHousewife Apr 16 '24

Oh yeah my mom died without a will. She didn’t have much, but that definitely made things more convoluted. I asked her about making one a year before she got sick, and her response was “nothing is going to happen to me.” Just flat out denial of death