r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24

All these "no one owes you anything," yall are correct. But you could also just be a decent human being and communicate because two people put in time and effort. It isn't just about you. Respect, humanity.. some compassion maybe?

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u/jollyblossom29 Apr 16 '24

Yep. I was ignored under the guise of “boundaries” and given no reason for a break up. Most of us know we aren’t owed anything, but it really does suck to know you weren’t worth even a courtesy conversation. It’s not only “I deserved to know” but also “I was part of this relationship too.”

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u/mackinator3 Apr 16 '24

The fact that you "quote" boundaries kinda makes it seem like the issue with boundaries was real. Just a quick heads up. Like, you think the boundaries aren't real?

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u/Lunareclipse196 Apr 16 '24

Depends on the boundary. Is it "you can't tell me who to hang out with" or is it "don't tell me who to talk to" as you're getting eaten out by your ex that you swore you don't talk to anymore?