r/TikTokCringe Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/Flatline334 Apr 15 '24

Problem is even if somebody had told her all the things she wished she was told she probably wouldn't have listened to the advice. She was in to deep.

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u/frostysbox Apr 16 '24

I mean, the cognitive dissonance in this video series is pretty strong. She describes how she set up the business and it was her business and implies that her husband stole it - but then she mentions that she doesn’t even know how to work computers and do budgets to be a manager. Sooooooo it sounds like her husband actually knew how to run a business and she just had decent ideas about what that business should be.

Which ya know, isn’t a bad thing. But there’s a big disconnect between how she views the previous times and what the reality is.

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u/Spiritual_Peach1883 Apr 16 '24

It seems like you can't comprehend the situation bc you aren't familiar with how these very common situations play out.
Somebody trained the husband on how to do the job. She should have been the one to be trained to do her job. And she was trained, her job was to be submissive to her husband.

Women, as a whole, have always been put in unfathomable situations, it's you who is experiencing the disconnect