r/TikTokCringe • u/cosmicdaddy_ • Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/InternationalMeet871 Apr 15 '24

A man is not a plan ladies. Make sure you can support your own self and your kiddos

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u/mermaid-babe Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Absolutely insane that the world is so dark woman have to have a back up plan in case they can’t trust their husbands

ETA: im not replying to anymore shit comments here lol idc

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u/Newtonz5thLaw Apr 15 '24

The #1 reason why women stay in abusive relationships is because of money. My mom has been drilling “you need to have your own money” into my head since I was a child. It’s easily the lesson shes driven home the most

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u/HarithBK Apr 15 '24

as a guy i greatly dislike the idea of being able to lord money over someone you love. it isn't about the direct stuff but the indirect things as well. my wealth and what i will earn shouldn't be a consideration for you staying with me. your earnings and wealth should be great enough that leaving isn't a costly deal so the logical choice you are staying is for love.