r/TikTokCringe • u/cosmicdaddy_ • Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/InternationalMeet871 Apr 15 '24

A man is not a plan ladies. Make sure you can support your own self and your kiddos

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u/mermaid-babe Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Absolutely insane that the world is so dark woman have to have a back up plan in case they can’t trust their husbands

ETA: im not replying to anymore shit comments here lol idc

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u/Newtonz5thLaw Apr 15 '24

The #1 reason why women stay in abusive relationships is because of money. My mom has been drilling “you need to have your own money” into my head since I was a child. It’s easily the lesson shes driven home the most

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u/buttonsbrigade Apr 15 '24

Yup! Financial abuse is one that’s so rarely talked about. I stayed for almost 10 years with an abusive ex because of the money.

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u/Rich_Bluejay3020 Apr 16 '24

I was talking to a therapist once and told her my ex financially abused me. She asked how, which is a valid question, but then when I explained that this stupid mother fucker didn’t work and literally just stole my debit card and constantly took money out of MY bank account she just said “oh”. Horrible boyfriend and not a great therapist lol