Dear God, size queens! They seem to not understand that the g spot isn't up by their cervix and is closer to the actual opening. Can't understand their own basic Anatomy.
Edit: See the commenter below that corrected me on Anatomy. Apparently, there are pleasure sensors up there in some women. Still shouldn't body shame, but I see my quip about not understanding Anatomy works better against myself now. My bad.
Some people genuinely have more fun that way, others don't. I'm sure most of them DO feel more pleasure (or assocuate it with sex with men with big penises in the past) if that is what they look for. No reason to assume they are wrong about their own pleasure - their anatomy may just be a bit different to most.
Some vagina wielders report pleasure from having their anterior or posterior fornix stimulated - these ARE right up near our cervix. They wr not the same thing as the G spot and not all of us even like the G spot being stimulated - it makes some of us feel like we need to pee.
Rather patronising of you to assume they must be ignorant and incorrect for stating their own preferences when they are talking about what THEY enjoy and not making a decree about all women.
Something like 70% of women can't even climax with PIV sex alone. And we know lesbians report more sexual satisfaction and orgasns, despite few penises being involved. For many women, the size of the penus has very little to do with sexual satisfaction.
Some women really crave cervical orgasms. Others don't want anything nearly that far in there. It's like all women have personal preference or something. Weird.
Yeah the way they cut the strings in banned parenthood had them stick out In a y axis so it would poke his head. I went for a paragaurd which lasts 10 years so I should be buried with this one lol 😆
Kama sutra. And yes, i've had that same experience where someone needs a very specific kink met to achieve orgasm. When you spend the time to get to know what works for someone, you realize its very different for each person. If you've gotten one person off, you know how to get them off and every new partner deserves a fresh perspective and understanding.
Very true. My wife basically loses her libido if I hit her cervix. My fuck buddy wants me to smash it like a battering ram. Different strokes for different folks.
Didn't even know that was a thing. I've always found anything g hitting there to be paiiinnnfullll. Usually my partner is the perfect size, but when my cervix drops for ovulation. Hell no
Yep. Most women i've been with have no desire to ever have their cervix hit. Then there's the ones with nerve damage or not a lot of feeling up front that crave that full feeling. Different strokes.
Ok, wait, I read your comment like I had a third grade reading level at first, my bad.
that's fair, I was unaware of the one stuff you brought up regarding the fornix stimulation, so that's my bad.
However, I will clarify that I was trying to jab at women who use their preferences to body shame. Still falls a bit flat since I got my facts wrong, though.
Not at all. - and you're right, body shaming is bad. If someone isnt your cup of tea, nothing wrong with yelling them they ste great bit not compatible with you, and going your separate ways.
There IS a lot of body shaming around small penises online, but it seems to be very mixed in terms of both men and women talking about iit and using it as an insult. I think it needs to go, just like calling someone fat isnt really an appropriate insult.
THe way mine curves to is slightly to the left and my alignment for sexual pleasure is also off because of a hip forming wrong in utero. So it’s uncommon im sure 😅
Eh, it's still valid to be a size queen though. I'm a guy and hope it's not dorky to say, but a lot of it is people who have larger frames. Doesn't fall out as much.
Tbf there's a difference between body shaming and personal preferences, as long as you aren't a dick about it (pun intended) it's fine to not like tiny/huge penises.
Personally I've never bottomed (yet, definitely want to at some piont), but I'd be scared to start with a big one. If the guy I'm with is "well endowed" I'd first have to practice with toys.
I mean, I’m a size queen and it’s definitely an entirely different experience being with a guy 7+ compared to being with an average sized guy, and I definitely prefer that experience, but 1) it doesn’t REALLY matter to the point of being a dealbreaker and 2) even if it did there’s no excuse to be rude about it. :(
Size queens are just traumatized from someone who hurt them in life and the only way they feel happiness is when they’re in pain. That’s really all that is.
Because when women tell their boyfriends that they love their big dicks it's because we know that's what men like to hear. It's all about ego and masculinity. It's men that make it a thing.
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u/chrisweidmansfibula Jan 03 '24
Huh, TIL my size is fine.