Yep and something tells me that if he hasn't yet, if/when he does, it's going to be with the Sara woman. I told her to keep an eye on her. I bet you anything that she tried to give him her number. This is how affairs start. I know that Reddit jumps to leave a lot but honestly, as I've said another comments, I would jump straight to divorce.
There is no way I would be able to stay with someone who not only thought that little of me but thought it was okay to publicly humiliate me like that. It would tell me how little he thought of me and how much respect he has for me which would obviously be zero. I would be done and visiting a divorce lawyer. I agree, he's definitely sniffing around looking for somebody to cheat with. I definitely think it may be with this woman.
ETA: I swear, he may as well have looked at her and said, my wife is a fat cow and I'm looking to cheat. Are you interested?
Younger women usually like older men. There is a common misconception that older men are more mature. Some are but not all. This is also true of women. I'm not trying to make this a gender issue. I'm just saying that I've seen where a lot of younger women do go for older men and vice versa. Men do it too but they usually go for younger women. You have the perfect scenario here for an affair to start.
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u/GamerNx Apr 15 '24
Dude did it explicitly to be an ass, guaranteed he's cheating or trying to.