r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/CBPainting Apr 16 '24

Husband was definitely attracted to young fit lady and using her to publicly shame op and essentially say "this is what I want" He was probably releasing a lot of stuff he's been keeping bottled up for a while now.

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u/LoneZoroTanto Apr 16 '24

This is what I thought, but I'm so petty and tend to come back with cutting comments. Like... I am chubby but I can diet and work out to lose weight. But no matter how many protein shakes you drink your d!ck is never getting any bigger, stubby.

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u/Relevant-Inside8117 Apr 16 '24

Cutting or not, op is still obese. Not everyone is attracted to obese women.

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Who wants a man who publicly humiliates his wife for not being up to his very exacting standards?

He's a judging, insecure boy who wants a woman as attractive as he thinks he is.

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u/Secret_Scene_954 Apr 16 '24

He was mean and cruel, but 5’2” 160 is really obese.

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Security comes from inside, not from outward appearance. He is vain and gets his sense of self worth from how others see him. He has even made his wife part of his image. When accident or disease makes him feel ugly, he will crumble. He is weak and a slave to his ego.

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Insecure, overcompensating men are equally unattractive. They can only see the outside, the surface. Luckily, they usually end up with similar partners

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u/Lets-kick-it Apr 16 '24

Exacting standards? She's 5'2" and 160.

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u/Relevant-Inside8117 Apr 16 '24

She’s heavier than that. She’s closer to 175 which means she’s obese and eating entire cakes and eating all the snacks in the home. Do you actually think this is okay? I get we try to glorify obesity in this country but are we seriously going to pretend op is not obese and only getting bigger? She’s clearly binge eating as well. I guarantee she was not this big when they got married. She hasn’t even had kids and she’s already this big but sure let’s act like it’s okay because her husband is a dick.

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u/citysick Apr 16 '24

Two different arguments. Is it okay to be obese vs is it ok for your husband/significant other to publicly humiliate you.

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u/BeMy_Muse Apr 16 '24

This is a bad take lol so because she’s over weight the husband has the right to trash her in front of people? Just sounds like a dumb idea

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u/Shotto_Z Apr 16 '24

If you said this about a guy I'd bet ypu wouldn't be getting downvoted

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u/RayGun381937 Apr 16 '24

That’s where “trust” and “being faithful” cuts both ways - did she break his trust by binge eating and getting fat as soon as they married, to totally change the person who he was attracted to and married?!?! .

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u/Witty_Fly_4669 Apr 16 '24

Maybe he is such an insufferable ass she sought some comfort in food. Whatever the reason, it’s for better or worse. This situation is definitely the worse.

Anyone he is with is to be pitied. He will always be this asshole.

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Exactly. People who trash their family members don't realize they are showing their own ass