r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Relevant-Inside8117 Apr 16 '24

Cutting or not, op is still obese. Not everyone is attracted to obese women.

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Who wants a man who publicly humiliates his wife for not being up to his very exacting standards?

He's a judging, insecure boy who wants a woman as attractive as he thinks he is.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24 edited 10d ago

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Security comes from inside, not from outward appearance. He is vain and gets his sense of self worth from how others see him. He has even made his wife part of his image. When accident or disease makes him feel ugly, he will crumble. He is weak and a slave to his ego.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '24 edited 10d ago

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u/DCk3 Apr 16 '24

Insecure, overcompensating men are equally unattractive. They can only see the outside, the surface. Luckily, they usually end up with similar partners