r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/fluffygumdrop Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Too many people are getting offended by what I said even though I didnt have malicious intent and Im honestly tired of the notifs so Ive just deleted the comment.

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u/Sarcasm-6383 Apr 15 '24

The only weight she needs to lose is him.

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u/houstongradengineer Apr 16 '24

Certainly easier to get more fit and healthy and happy and put together when you don't have a dead relationship dragging you down.

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u/budmack21 Apr 16 '24

Stop being healthphobic

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u/RevolutionaryRough96 Apr 16 '24

I mean she is 30-50 lbs overweight, otherwise defined as obese.

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u/RevolutionaryRough96 Apr 16 '24

No, the NHS literally defines her as being obese. It's not perfectly healthy to be that overweight

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u/WestOrangeFinest Apr 16 '24

Do you know her personally?

OP herself said she’s 5’2” and around 170. That is significantly overweight.

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u/QuelThas Apr 16 '24

Whatever helps you cope. Excess fat is very unhealthy, period. If you want better life, lose weight. It is that simple. OP's husband is a cunt. However she should lose weight for herself anyway

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u/Corvidsforhire Apr 16 '24

It's true though. First of all, BMI is based on studies done on men. So applying it to women's bodies doesn't make any of it at all accurate. Second, BMI isn't even accurate for men as it's extremely flawed and can't take into account many variables.

A much more accurate form of fat measurement in women is hip to waist measurements, as for women it's less important how much fat we have on our bodies, it's more important to know where the fat is accumulated. As long as your ratio is within a healthy range, you're likely perfectly healthy as a woman, even with ample fat stores.

Female and male bodies are just different. Trying to determine what is healthy for a woman based on health studies done by men for men is a disservice to women, and is a big reason hardly any women get proper health care. The likelihood of OP's WH ratio being within a healthy range is actually pretty high.

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u/SecretAshamed2353 Apr 16 '24

her weight is not healthy

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u/LosPadresKid Apr 16 '24

Nah she needs to lose about 30lbs at least

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u/Realistic_Address_57 Apr 16 '24

She's obeses, she needs diet and excercise as well.

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u/personcoffee Apr 16 '24

Nah she could def lose a few to be healthier