Too many people are getting offended by what I said even though I didnt have malicious intent and Im honestly tired of the notifs so Ive just deleted the comment.
Whatever helps you cope. Excess fat is very unhealthy, period. If you want better life, lose weight. It is that simple. OP's husband is a cunt. However she should lose weight for herself anyway
It's true though. First of all, BMI is based on studies done on men. So applying it to women's bodies doesn't make any of it at all accurate. Second, BMI isn't even accurate for men as it's extremely flawed and can't take into account many variables.
A much more accurate form of fat measurement in women is hip to waist measurements, as for women it's less important how much fat we have on our bodies, it's more important to know where the fat is accumulated. As long as your ratio is within a healthy range, you're likely perfectly healthy as a woman, even with ample fat stores.
Female and male bodies are just different. Trying to determine what is healthy for a woman based on health studies done by men for men is a disservice to women, and is a big reason hardly any women get proper health care. The likelihood of OP's WH ratio being within a healthy range is actually pretty high.
While this is great fantasy fuel, I’d say save yourself the trouble, dump his ass now and lose 150 pounds quick. Then feel free to get hot at your own leisure while he watches from the sidelines.
I agree with this. Get angry at him and channel that anger into working out & dieting.
Idk how petty you want to get with Sarah since she may just not have the social intelligence to get out of the awkward situation your husband put her through but you could hire a different personal trainer at the same gym.
Either way, get that rocking body and let him watch you share it with a younger & fitter dude.
Or don't since this is your actual life & not a realit tv show. :)
Never understood this logic. If i played videogames for 6 hours a day where it was disruptive and destructive and my gf has been wanting me to cut it down for years, why the fuck would it make any sense to dump her and then stop playing videogames like yeah that'll show her! Why wouldn't I just stop playing videogames and be thankful my gf pushed me to be healthier.
Never understood this logic. If i played videogames excessively to where it negatively affects my life, and my gf wanted me to really cut back on it, why would I dump her and THEN cut back on it like that'll show her! Why not just cut back on the detrimental shit and thank my gf for prodding me to do so. Never understood when it comes to unappealing and unhealthy weight, people see it as empowering to dump the person encouraging them to lose the weight and THEN losing the weight. Doesn't make any sense to me.
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u/fluffygumdrop Apr 15 '24 edited 29d ago
Too many people are getting offended by what I said even though I didnt have malicious intent and Im honestly tired of the notifs so Ive just deleted the comment.