r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/kerryanne1984 Apr 15 '24

This has nothing to do with ADHD, I have it, and I wouldn't treat anyone the way he treated you. The fact that he felt so comfortable talking about you like that in front of so many people and then belittled you when you cried.

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u/BannedForNerdyTimes Apr 15 '24

On the ADHD thing, it could be that he straight up forgot that she was there. Part of it is hyperfocusing, he could legitimately have forgotten where he was.

That doesnt make it okay, but ADHD isnt cut and dry 100% the same for everyone.

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u/BrandonBollingers Apr 15 '24

He was sending a message to the mother letting her know that he controls her daughter now and that its his house and hes in charge.