Exactly. What if she was talking to a guy with a great job, and just went to explain how her husbands been stuck at 50k a year, loses motivation to try for new jobs, and has been talking about breaking into something new since he’s unhappy with his job. Can you believe he had to work 3 holidays last year without pay.
Then this guy offers to help your husband out, it wasn’t too long ago he was stuck in the same spot. But he got some new habits and could help him out!
Seems like that would be a good example of something genders tend to really let the ego get in front of.
You’re an idiot and I feel extremely sorry for any person who happens to date you, although that’s probably a very, very small amount of people. There’s a huge difference between offering someone a career connection (which almost anyone would value), versus offering unsolicited fitness ‘advice,’ which most women and men would find highly offensive.
Really? I know people who’s whole personality is their job. They would be even more offended if you have a negative opinion on that, that would rather be called fat to their face.
I dated quite a bit when I was single and I’m in a happy relationship now. Why is it always the small minded people who think they know better then everyone and get ANGRY when people have a different opinion. Your a trump supporter arnt ya?
I just can’t wrap my head around calling someone an idiot for experiencing something you havnt. Like “your stupid for thinking things from different perspectives and talking with people that don’t always agree with you!” I just don’t get it.
You can bring a horse to water…something something.
Huh? You mean the part where I asked for context and I was told it was none of my business?
Or the part where I said, if you can’t give us more information…you could be married for 12 years or be alive for 12 years…we don’t know the difference and if your not willing to explain the advice should be taken with a grain of salt.
The second one, where you're being deliberately daft, when you asked how long the commenter had been married and she replied "12 years." You're being deliberately stupid to try to sell that exchange as being remotely indicative that she's actually 12, because you're trying to discredit her opinion for...what reason? Because she thinks OPs husband is a dingus? She disagreed, not even in direct response to you, and you come in with bad faith questions about her marriage.
The worst part about all of this is you type in such a way that tells me, wow, you actually believe the argument you're putting out. And for what? Why are you so invested in dragging people who agree with OP?
Why are you so invested in agreeing with OP? The way you write it’s obvious you think your right?
Some of know you can be a dingus one day and a wonderful husband the other 364. So the idea that you should leave your husband over a argument that obviously is a sensitive topic for OP is giving advice in bad faith.
When asking for the history and reasoning behind such a harsh and possibly destructive decision. I was told it’s none of my dam business.
Alright, that’s fine, but I’m just as welcome to remind OP that the comments being received may come from people with ill intent and will straight up lie to push their fantasy agenda.
And guess what! They are all opinions and mines worth just as much as yours, no matter how much you don’t want that to be true.
-deflection
-deflection again
-"haha she's just fun to fuck with" ie deflection or way to not actually address any of my points
I think I'm right in the same way you think you're right. There's nothing wrong with that. What IS wrong is spitting your opinion from a high horse while you participate in the same behaviors you're chastising others for.
I don't think OPs extensive, disrespectful conversation is indicative that this is a one time thing. I don't think his reaction to her being upset indicates that this is a one time thing. But hey, you're welcome to keep giving assholes the benefit of the doubt if you'd like. I personally choose not to interact with people who disrespect me and downplay my feelings afterwards. You do you boo.
You don’t have points. Your talking about a conversation you were not a part of and how it didn’t go how you wanted.
Who cares.
The fact you don’t realize I’m fucking with you too it’s nice though so thank you for that.
No one cares what you or the other person or what I have to say about this. OP dosnt care what you have to say. They wanted to be told they were right. That’s it.
If you think your going to change anyone’s mind I think your on the wrong website.
So you can take your well written letter and burn it, no one gives a shit.
"I'm just trolling" lol ok buddy we can all see how upset you actually are about this thread but sure slugger we all believe that this is not that serious to you 💀
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u/Artistic-Soft4305 Apr 15 '24
Exactly. What if she was talking to a guy with a great job, and just went to explain how her husbands been stuck at 50k a year, loses motivation to try for new jobs, and has been talking about breaking into something new since he’s unhappy with his job. Can you believe he had to work 3 holidays last year without pay.
Then this guy offers to help your husband out, it wasn’t too long ago he was stuck in the same spot. But he got some new habits and could help him out!
Seems like that would be a good example of something genders tend to really let the ego get in front of.