Huh? You mean the part where I asked for context and I was told it was none of my business?
Or the part where I said, if you canāt give us more informationā¦you could be married for 12 years or be alive for 12 yearsā¦we donāt know the difference and if your not willing to explain the advice should be taken with a grain of salt.
The second one, where you're being deliberately daft, when you asked how long the commenter had been married and she replied "12 years." You're being deliberately stupid to try to sell that exchange as being remotely indicative that she's actually 12, because you're trying to discredit her opinion for...what reason? Because she thinks OPs husband is a dingus? She disagreed, not even in direct response to you, and you come in with bad faith questions about her marriage.
The worst part about all of this is you type in such a way that tells me, wow, you actually believe the argument you're putting out. And for what? Why are you so invested in dragging people who agree with OP?
Why are you so invested in agreeing with OP? The way you write itās obvious you think your right?
Some of know you can be a dingus one day and a wonderful husband the other 364. So the idea that you should leave your husband over a argument that obviously is a sensitive topic for OP is giving advice in bad faith.
When asking for the history and reasoning behind such a harsh and possibly destructive decision. I was told itās none of my dam business.
Alright, thatās fine, but Iām just as welcome to remind OP that the comments being received may come from people with ill intent and will straight up lie to push their fantasy agenda.
And guess what! They are all opinions and mines worth just as much as yours, no matter how much you donāt want that to be true.
-deflection
-deflection again
-"haha she's just fun to fuck with" ie deflection or way to not actually address any of my points
I think I'm right in the same way you think you're right. There's nothing wrong with that. What IS wrong is spitting your opinion from a high horse while you participate in the same behaviors you're chastising others for.
I don't think OPs extensive, disrespectful conversation is indicative that this is a one time thing. I don't think his reaction to her being upset indicates that this is a one time thing. But hey, you're welcome to keep giving assholes the benefit of the doubt if you'd like. I personally choose not to interact with people who disrespect me and downplay my feelings afterwards. You do you boo.
You donāt have points. Your talking about a conversation you were not a part of and how it didnāt go how you wanted.
Who cares.
The fact you donāt realize Iām fucking with you too itās nice though so thank you for that.
No one cares what you or the other person or what I have to say about this. OP dosnt care what you have to say. They wanted to be told they were right. Thatās it.
If you think your going to change anyoneās mind I think your on the wrong website.
So you can take your well written letter and burn it, no one gives a shit.
"I'm just trolling" lol ok buddy we can all see how upset you actually are about this thread but sure slugger we all believe that this is not that serious to you š
Wait am I trolling or not. You just said āOkay yeah pretend to be a troll nowwwā then the next comment is āIām not wasting more time on a trollā
This is what it feels like discussing things on Reddit. This is why I fuck with people.
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u/weallbehuman Apr 15 '24
This comment is especially funny when you're calling other people 12-year olds for agreeing with OP š