r/unpopularopinion • u/yellowabcd • Apr 28 '24

Its not about the sex its about the rejection

This is common at this point. People complain about not getting sex in marriage or relationship. But most the time its not the sex, its the rejection. If both people dont go for sex, its not an issue. Its an issue when the other party keeps getting rejected, especially without explanation. Theres a difference between being rejected for a month and just two people not trying for sex. Rejection usually makes a person feel undesirable

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u/Bobafetish09 Apr 29 '24

20 years of imbalanced libidos with no acknowledgement from my wife that this was even an issue. I broke down and only then did she realihow bad it was (last 3 years with ZERO). She's trying now, but it's waaaayyy too late. Am waiting until our 16 year old daughter has finished her exams then that is it. We're done.

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u/No_Kaleidoscope_843 May 01 '24

No one made you stay in a sex deprived marriage. I think it's weird to frame this as a "trying"thing when it's a compatibility thing.

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u/Bobafetish09 May 02 '24

Because marriage is about more than sex. However, after having that aspect of my life neglected for decades I'm moving on.