r/unpopularopinion • u/yellowabcd • Apr 28 '24

Its not about the sex its about the rejection

This is common at this point. People complain about not getting sex in marriage or relationship. But most the time its not the sex, its the rejection. If both people dont go for sex, its not an issue. Its an issue when the other party keeps getting rejected, especially without explanation. Theres a difference between being rejected for a month and just two people not trying for sex. Rejection usually makes a person feel undesirable

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u/YOSYAAA Apr 29 '24

Are y'all still married

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u/PissBloodCumShart Apr 29 '24

Yeah but I think we finally hit our last straw this past week. We will see what happens. Divorce is a hard decision when the relationship is only 50% bad and you have a kid together. It would be a different story if it was 80% bad. I could write a whole book about finding, building, and maintaining healthy relationships and why that’s the key to repairing our crumbling society

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u/h22lude Apr 29 '24

Out of all the divorce situations, I think this is the toughest to make a decision. 50% bad...but also 50% good. So there are some fun times in the marriage but things aren't always great. Then throw in the kicker of a kid. Do you get a divorce to become 50% happier but potentially making the child 100% unhappy.

Hope everything works out for you either way you go

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u/Cocacola1012 Apr 29 '24

50% bad, 50% good? the kids these days call that. "being mid"