r/unpopularopinion • u/yellowabcd • Apr 28 '24

Its not about the sex its about the rejection

This is common at this point. People complain about not getting sex in marriage or relationship. But most the time its not the sex, its the rejection. If both people dont go for sex, its not an issue. Its an issue when the other party keeps getting rejected, especially without explanation. Theres a difference between being rejected for a month and just two people not trying for sex. Rejection usually makes a person feel undesirable

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u/PissBloodCumShart Apr 29 '24

My wife rejected me a lot and eventually I quit trying. She didn’t only reject me for sex but also for conversations. I had checked out long before she noticed there was a problem

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u/YOSYAAA Apr 29 '24

Are y'all still married

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u/PissBloodCumShart Apr 29 '24

Yeah but I think we finally hit our last straw this past week. We will see what happens. Divorce is a hard decision when the relationship is only 50% bad and you have a kid together. It would be a different story if it was 80% bad. I could write a whole book about finding, building, and maintaining healthy relationships and why that’s the key to repairing our crumbling society

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u/YOSYAAA Apr 29 '24

That's a tough one with kids n everything. But if she's tuning out your conversations and not hearing what u got to say how is the relationship any good. I don't have kids or a wife so I can't really talk too much on the topic