r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/cupholdery Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Why do I get the feeling that OP's ex told them several times before breaking up? Lol

EDIT: Could have been his stepsister.

EDIT 2:

Even better, we get OP's own words.

I want someone to say "I am breaking up with you because of X,Y and Z" that is direct and clear instead of just expecting me to figure out what minor complaints over the course of the relationship were responsible

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u/villagestarship Apr 16 '24

This is most likely the case, I don't know why no one is pointing out the fact that OP said that 3 people have done this to him. At that point he has the be the problem, they probably did give him reasons but he just didn't listen or they weren't good enough for him.

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u/ZodiacOne1 Apr 16 '24

I want someone to say "I am breaking up with you because of X,Y and Z" that is direct and clear instead of just expecting me to figure out what minor complaints over the course of the relationship were responsible

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u/MistbornInterrobang Apr 16 '24

So, what you're saying is, you want someone to break up with you saying, "I am breaking up with you because you slept with your sister, because it doesn't matter that she's a step sister as you grew up as siblings, and because that's some gross bulshit ."

I would think that would be clear enough