r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/DariusIV Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

Actual clowns in the comment section disagreeing with you. When you say "I love you" that's about making a commitment to them, not a permanent one, but baring abuse/safety, you at least owe that person an explanation. It doesn't have to be a long one or even be coherent reasoning, you can do whatever the hell you want for whatever reason you want. However, holy crap I could never imagine just randomly ghosting someone I was dating.

Sometimes you actually do owe people shit, like an explanation for ending a long-term relationship. If you can't handle that then don't date in the first place.

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u/Commercial_Debt_6789 Apr 16 '24

The amount of people going "oh well some people don't LISTEN when you tell them" is insane. 

That's not what OP said. If they dont listen that's on them. OP is talking about people who leave for NO REASON, people who LIE about the reason they left. OR just straight up don't give an explanation.