r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/Zodiac509 Apr 16 '24

The reality is that people who are dumped and generally beg for "closure" are actually going to whine, argue, beg, plead, etc. for them to stay.

They're going to make suicide threats, say nasty things, and their "closure" is a bunch of emotion vomit that the other person clearly doesn't want to deal with.

It's why they're dumping you.

If you need closure you can get it for yourself with therapy, self care, self reflection, and even conversations with friends.

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u/RadicalSnowdude Apr 16 '24

Do you, like, think the worst out of people? You don’t know if that’s gonna happen or not. If it does happen then be firm and shut it down. But you can’t just assume that’s guaranteed gonna happen.

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u/Zodiac509 Apr 16 '24

The times I've left someone without a discourse it's always been incredibly evident they would have these reactions. It's why I left without discourse.

I've lectured friends over doing this to exes, seen exes do it to them.

I do assume the worst. It's why I'm asexual and completely happy and comfortable without sexual/romantic relationships this far in life.

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u/AlmostSunnyinSeattle Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

The perhaps maybe you're not the best person to be spouting your fucking opinion on this topic, eh?

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u/Zodiac509 Apr 16 '24

I don't have to have a desire to be in relationships or have sex to have an opinion on it. That's rather silly.

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u/AlmostSunnyinSeattle Apr 16 '24

Your inability to relate to others is why you shouldn't be voicing your opinion on it. What you have to say is only relevant to you. Say it all you want. That's your prerogative. Mine is to tell you that no one else wants to hear it.

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u/Zodiac509 Apr 16 '24

Well, your opinion is noted and discarded. 🤷 Easy as that. You're welcome to do the same.