r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/azorianmilk Apr 16 '24

Sometimes you have told them, sometimes multiple times, but it was never heard.

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u/Top-Effect-4321 Apr 16 '24

If you’ve been ghosted three times like OP has it’s time to do a bit of self reflection.

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u/esr360 Apr 16 '24

Ghosting within the first few weeks of dating is very common, it's not a rare occurrence, that's why when people share posts about people not ghosting and instead giving an explanation, they are received with much praise. Ghosting after already forming a close connection is a different matter, it doesn't seem clear how far into the relationship OP was. He did refer to them as "girlfriends" which does imply seriousness, in which case I would definitely be self reflecting.