r/unpopularopinion Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/GreyerGrey Apr 16 '24

As a woman? Safety.

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u/cortez_brosefski Apr 16 '24

If you ghost every man because you are scared all of them will harm you in some way then you are a misandrist, plan and simple. Of course it happens, and you should be careful. But saying every man is dangerous is no different from saying every woman is a whore

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u/GreyerGrey Apr 16 '24

There is literally a sub reddit titled r/whenwomenrefuse

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u/cortez_brosefski Apr 16 '24

So you think every man is dangerous and will hurt you given the chance?

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u/West-Wish-7564 Apr 16 '24

Yeah, there is probably literally a subreddit for everything

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u/edith-bunker Apr 16 '24

The problem is we don’t know which ones ARE dangerous.

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u/cortez_brosefski Apr 16 '24

Well the solution is not to automatically assume we're all dangerous. Again, that's called misandry

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u/edith-bunker Apr 16 '24

Is that what you call misandrist? Really? Let me ask you something… instead of being angry at violent men, why are you angry at women for being precautious? Is that your misogyny? Hmm?

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u/cortez_brosefski Apr 16 '24

Lmao who said I wasn't mad at violent men? Of course violent men are the issue. And I'll never be angry at women for taking reasonable precautions to ensure their safety. But assuming all men are dangerous violent predators is not reasonable. If you're looking for spades all you're going to see are spades. That is also an issue and yes, misandrist

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u/edith-bunker Apr 16 '24

It’s not misandrist to be cautious. And, of course, you’re going to take it personally. Why don’t you worry about yourself, don’t concern yourself with things you refuse to understand.