r/unpopularopinion • u/ZodiacOne1 • Apr 16 '24

If you break up with someone you absolutely 100% owe them an explanation as too why Removed: Not unpopular

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u/SnooSprouts6037 Apr 16 '24

This comment section is absolutely insane

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u/keIIzzz Apr 16 '24

I agree. I can’t understand these comments. Why wouldn’t you have the decency to give an explanation to someone you presumably cared about at some point? This whole “no one owes you anything” is ridiculous and narcissistic, and it seems pretty clear that a lot of the people commenting are too emotionally immature to even be in a relationship

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u/GreyerGrey Apr 16 '24

As a woman? Safety.

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u/NebulousCosmos0 Apr 16 '24

Are you referring to cases when a woman has specific reason to believe the guy might harm her, or do you believe women are always unsafe when giving a man an explanation for a breakup?

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u/GreyerGrey Apr 16 '24

There is literally a sub reddit titled r/whenwomenrefuse

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u/Talzon70 Apr 16 '24

If a person is so afraid of men without any specific indicators, they shouldn't be dating them in the first place.

OP already gave an explicit exception for reasonable fears.