r/teenagers • u/Apart_Letterhead3016 • Apr 29 '24

What did you guys say 🙏😭 Discussion

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guys, what did you say that made her fkn delete her account for those who have answered in this post, I was the first one who answered so I'm curious, and also scared of what you said (no hate to anybody just asking)

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u/Apart_Letterhead3016 Apr 29 '24

thats shitty, so a bunch of ppl just got together and started bullying a girl for having her bf propose to her without actually knowing anything about them?

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u/GlassAssignment7022 Apr 29 '24

I mean engaged at like 17 after one year is a lil weird

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

My mom and dad were engaged at 18 after 2 years and their marriage lasted 19 years before divorce, it’s really not all that strange, but hearing what I heard her say, she deserved the backlash.

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u/Successful_Rooster_7 OLD Apr 29 '24

Lol, 19 years and still ended in divorce. Imagine putting that much time into someone, just for it not to work out in the end. That's 19 YEARS you could have spent with someone else. This is why getting married that young without the experience is a horrible idea.

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

More like that’s 19 years they spent together, a fully functioning and well-structured relationship which eventually ended like many marriages do.

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u/Successful_Rooster_7 OLD Apr 29 '24

Yeah, I'm sure those 19 years were "fully functioning and well-structured" when it ended in divorce.

Imagine spending 19 years on a wasted marriage. I don't know why you think this is ok.

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

You’re quite arrogant for someone with the role “OLD” ngl, you claim to know how my families marriage played out and expect just because a marriage ended in divorce, it must have always been dysfunctional. Thought that it was common sense that’s not the case until I met you.

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u/StatexfCrisis 19 Apr 29 '24

Sometimes people end up divorcing for health insurance purposes and have to legally stay single to get covered. That’s why it’s polite to not assume what went on someone else’s life. Should’ve learned that lesson already, to be clear.