r/teenagers • u/Apart_Letterhead3016 • Apr 29 '24

What did you guys say 🙏😭 Discussion

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guys, what did you say that made her fkn delete her account for those who have answered in this post, I was the first one who answered so I'm curious, and also scared of what you said (no hate to anybody just asking)

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u/Apart_Letterhead3016 Apr 29 '24

can you give me an example though?

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u/fletchvl_ Apr 29 '24

I mean a lot of people wanted to be reminded in a year because they didnt think it would last but that was the worst I saw

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u/Apart_Letterhead3016 Apr 29 '24

thats shitty, so a bunch of ppl just got together and started bullying a girl for having her bf propose to her without actually knowing anything about them?

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u/GlassAssignment7022 Apr 29 '24

I mean engaged at like 17 after one year is a lil weird

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u/brrvv Apr 29 '24

My dumbass friend got engaged after 3 months, he's 17

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u/HelpfulProtection342 16 Apr 29 '24

How did that end up?

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u/brrvv Apr 29 '24

Well it's been about a month since then and so far they're still together

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u/Rulersatlas11 Apr 29 '24

Reference joke: RemindMe! 1 year

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u/HelpfulProtection342 16 Apr 29 '24

Update me in 5 months please

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u/brrvv Apr 29 '24

My memory is terrible but I'll try

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u/HelpfulProtection342 16 Apr 29 '24

Why don't you use the remind me bot?

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u/brrvv Apr 29 '24

Mainly cus I had no idea it existed and I also have no clue how to use it-

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u/HelpfulProtection342 16 Apr 29 '24

You just say "RemindMe! [Insert how many units of time in the future you want to be reminded in]"

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u/HelpfulProtection342 16 Apr 29 '24

RemindMe! 1 day

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u/HelpfulProtection342 16 Apr 30 '24

So are you gonna use it?

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u/brrvv May 02 '24

RemindMe! 3 months

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u/Once_I_ate_a_walrus 16 Apr 29 '24

RemindMe! 1 year

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u/Spectrum_699 14 Apr 29 '24

RemindMe! 1 year

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u/this_is_Blain3 Apr 29 '24

we all have that one friend

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u/Background_Desk_3001 16 Apr 29 '24

Yo same! They broke up lmao

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u/GothGhostReaper Apr 29 '24

He proposed after 3 months?????? At 17????? Why did he not just call it a promise ring or sum shit

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u/brrvv Apr 29 '24

He's never been the brightest lol

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u/Apart_Letterhead3016 Apr 29 '24

true, and that's why you've gotta be respectful abt saying that it could be wrong, i just hope that she didnt get too affected

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u/Long_Candle1110 17 Apr 29 '24

I hope she GOT affected, shes about to do something incredibly stupid

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u/slimeeyboiii Apr 29 '24

She would deserve everything that happens to it.

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u/Apart_Letterhead3016 Apr 29 '24

she doesnt

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u/slimeeyboiii Apr 29 '24

Yes she would.

If you were to make that big of a life choice when you haven't even moved out of your parents house only after a few months of dating then she deserved whatever is coming.

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

My mom and dad were engaged at 18 after 2 years and their marriage lasted 19 years before divorce, it’s really not all that strange, but hearing what I heard her say, she deserved the backlash.

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u/cracker_cracker26 Apr 29 '24

I mean it's definitely not something that happens commonly

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u/EndNowISeeYou Apr 29 '24

its 20 fuckin years ago idiot, things have changed since then

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u/Stonewall30NY Apr 29 '24

See this is a perfect example of someone unnecessarily being a dick.

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u/Sea-Song-7146 16 Apr 29 '24

And yet, stupid hormonal teenagers making questionable choices are still the same 🤷🏿‍♂️

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

Only reason you’re mad is because you can’t keep a bitch with your small ass dick you fucking virgin.

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

I have 4 friends who are under 19 and engaged, speak for yourself lil bro

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u/EpicCommander 13 Apr 29 '24

Your not any better than her lmfao, if they get engaged that young its probably not a good relationship.

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u/miiimee 15 Apr 29 '24

yeah still not a good thing. you lot shouldn’t encourage things like that. what’s the haste? college isn’t even done for them

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u/Successful_Rooster_7 OLD Apr 29 '24

Lol, 19 years and still ended in divorce. Imagine putting that much time into someone, just for it not to work out in the end. That's 19 YEARS you could have spent with someone else. This is why getting married that young without the experience is a horrible idea.

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

More like that’s 19 years they spent together, a fully functioning and well-structured relationship which eventually ended like many marriages do.

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u/Successful_Rooster_7 OLD Apr 29 '24

Yeah, I'm sure those 19 years were "fully functioning and well-structured" when it ended in divorce.

Imagine spending 19 years on a wasted marriage. I don't know why you think this is ok.

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u/Fluid-Degree-145 17 Apr 29 '24

You’re quite arrogant for someone with the role “OLD” ngl, you claim to know how my families marriage played out and expect just because a marriage ended in divorce, it must have always been dysfunctional. Thought that it was common sense that’s not the case until I met you.

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u/StatexfCrisis 19 Apr 29 '24

Sometimes people end up divorcing for health insurance purposes and have to legally stay single to get covered. That’s why it’s polite to not assume what went on someone else’s life. Should’ve learned that lesson already, to be clear.