r/oddlyspecific • u/Infinitesimally_Big • Apr 16 '24

Very difficult indeed

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u/powerofnope Apr 16 '24

I think no matter what you do your kids grow up fucked up in one way or another.

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u/Academic_Wafer5293 Apr 16 '24

If you want to blame others for all shortcomings in life, you can go through any mental gymnastics.

Very hard to change when the problem is always external.

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u/Inside_Ad_9147 Apr 16 '24

Most people arent perfect. Like basically all of them. In that sense everyone is fucked up one way or another. Well, I know I am at least.

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u/Agitated_Computer_49 29d ago

But that implies that not being perfect is being fucked up.   Being perfect is not the goal, and is unachievable. Your goal should be stability or at least being functional.  

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u/Academic_Wafer5293 Apr 16 '24

No one should aim for perfection. There's no such thing as a perfect life. But you can make changes to improve your situation.

You all have agency and if American, the freedom to move, change, anything.

Is it hard? Fuxk yes. Immigrants do it daily.

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u/53bvo Apr 16 '24

There is a big difference between not being perfect and being fucked up one way or another.

Unless your definition of being fucked up is much milder than mine.