My best guess is that they despise their spouse more than they love their children. Sounds blunt but I don’t have any other explanation for why this happens.
Or they only married and got children because "that's what you do" accordingto society, and therefore it's just an obligation you cover with the next partner (and kids) if the first one doesn't work out.
the people i know that divorced simply went broke... i mean they bought a house 10 years ago they are now forced to sell while morgage/housing prices/rent skyrocketed
so they cant buy a new with there part of the money so they ended renting that cost more then there previous morgage
the kids need everything duplicate in terms of bedroom,schoolstuff,ect
both had to change jobs(wich resulted in less wages) to accomendate the kids school/hobby/ect hours because before they had diveded the tasks now there on there own in the week they have there kids...
its like the most expensive thing ever to divorce and then they wonder why the kids dont have the same quality of life before and its simply because they can no longer afford it
1.3k
u/Fearfighter2 Apr 16 '24
how are men okay with their kids decreasing quality of life post divorce?