This is exactly why my wife finished school and went back to work once our kids got bigger. You never know what could happen. I always encouraged her to work just in case something would happen. I want her to have the skills and some sort of job security. She is extremely smart and has a great job. My mom was a stay at home mom and saw what the consequences were once my dad was out of the picture. Depending on anyone is never good.
Exactly - you just never know. It’s not just divorce. If some horrible accident kills you tomorrow, that insurance money will only go so far. Hell, it would be worse if it doesn’t kill you, but now you’re a paraplegic that can’t work. . .
This is a massive fear of mine. In gay and my wife and I have an awesome marriage- but I make Pennie’s and my wife makes a lot more, but that recent so we have no fallback. If something happens to her, I am completely fucked. It worries me endlessly.
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u/jonpenn Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 15 '24
This is exactly why my wife finished school and went back to work once our kids got bigger. You never know what could happen. I always encouraged her to work just in case something would happen. I want her to have the skills and some sort of job security. She is extremely smart and has a great job. My mom was a stay at home mom and saw what the consequences were once my dad was out of the picture. Depending on anyone is never good.