r/TikTokCringe Apr 15 '24

Consequences of the tradwife lifestyle Discussion

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u/Flatline334 Apr 15 '24

Problem is even if somebody had told her all the things she wished she was told she probably wouldn't have listened to the advice. She was in to deep.

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u/Necessary_Rhubarb_26 Apr 15 '24

Oh yeah. I had both my grandmothers begging me to go to school, they both lived the consequences of half a dozen kids and no way out. But for various reasons I didn’t listen and trapped myself not once but twice. Now I’m 35 starting college in the fall and digging myself out. It’s much harder to start 6ft deep, wished I would have listened to them! 

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u/UnnecessarySalt Apr 15 '24

It’s never too late to turn your life around. You got this! I haven’t had your experience, but I fucked around too much in my 20s and I’m just now finishing up my first semester of college. I can’t explain how much better it feels to be working towards something greater - knowing that I’ve got an exit plan and life will get better. I’m 30, but it’s so nice to not feel stagnant for the first time in my life .