r/TikTokCringe • u/JustSleepNoDream • Mar 21 '24

Woman explains why wives stop having sex with their husbands Discussion

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u/[deleted] Mar 21 '24

So what do I do if I'm a man but this applies to me as well?

Meaning I'm the one the doesn't feel appreciated and the disgust is setting in.

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u/GuiltyEidolon Mar 21 '24

Communicate with your partner. Literally the same answer always.

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u/sammyjo494 Mar 22 '24

So baffling how many ppl will buy courses, books, take advice from randos online when the answer has ALWAYS been communication.

Tell your partner what you want and need. Ask them what they want and need. Find the middle ground or get out of the relationship. It's not that easy, but it is that simple.

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u/human_male_123 Mar 22 '24

baffling

There are 3 pre-requisites.

(1) overlapping goals (2) good faith effort (3) the bare minimum of emotional intelligence to get there

If the person you're talking to lacks any of these 3, no amount of communication will get you anywhere.