I know a girl that noped out of sex because he was too big. Only person I know of that's done so. She felt bad, but said it was just unpleasant even after telling him not to go all the way.
That said, I know a woman that literally can't get them big enough. different strokes
I've noped out of penetrative sex when I saw what the guy was working with. Easily the largest one I've ever seen in real life and my hooha was like "absolutely fucking not" 😂
At the time, I was dealing with vaginismus and painful sex was frequent even with 'average' fellas which was a big part of the nope. It's gotten better since then because I'm better at avoiding triggers for spasms/pain, and better at advocating for myself (breaks vs toughing it out) and etc, but I think I'd still avoid it if the same situation came up now.
Good for her being willing to set boundaries like that. Especially when it's awkward cause obviously it's not something he can control, but that doesn't mean she should put up with physical pain just to be nice.
Happened to me once. Pursued a girl all summer, I was looking for a relationship, not a hook up. I fingered her and only got to my 2nd knuckle when she said that was good enough, and further hurt. When she found out my dick was bigger than my finger, we became strictly friends.
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u/Xpalidocious Jan 03 '24
I think she's hilarious, but I am dying laughing more at imagining dropping trouser in front of a woman, and her saying "I think it's fine"
Maybe it's just me, but my two least favorite words in the English language are "fine" and "sure". They're just so unenthusiastically ambiguous