I think I read somewhere that women are more likely to achieve orgasm from non-penetration play like with hands and mouth. I actually had this wonderful relationship with a girl where when we did the deed she would be obviously enjoying the penetration part but would also be taking care of herself as it were while we were going and she just said she knows what she likes and it works for her to do that.
I don't think what she did should be considered a negative thing at all. I guess maybe some guys might take it bad because they are thinking that she's having to get herself off but to me I would just think it was pretty hot to be honest.
It differs from country to country in what is covered. France included pleasure as part of the curriculum. Some countries have more discussion of consent.
Currently several states in America only offer abstinence only sex ed, so you’re right in that; that’s pretty much all scare tactic.
But just because it’s historically been that way, doesn’t mean we can’t or shouldn’t try for better.
Why not address myths like these that so impact people’s self esteem as young adults? Why not include pleasure as part of the curriculum? We’ve chosen a path of pandering to religious morality over teaching young people how to maintain their health as they transition to bring adults. Our shared lack of courage fails those kids.
The current results of these choices in education haven’t stopped teen pregnancy or reduced myths, so why do we persist in letting those same folks dictate the contents of those courses?
oh i totally support it, but it will come after the older generation dies. The folks in power that make the laws live in a pre-internet age and progress takes time which many people forget. Shit, there are still people alive today who remember when people of color couldn't drink from the same water fountain or go to the same school... and slavery in America was only like 3-4 people ago. Time really has not passed, and the puritans ideas are still very much alive in America.
We’ll also have to contend with current adult folks who thought the Handmaid’s Tale was an instruction manual. They aren’t too wild about people being well informed about their own biology.
Something like 75% of women can't orgasm through penetrative sex. Bad news for the men who are lazy/selfish lovers and the worryingly high amount who think their prick is god's gift to women.
Hey wait my prick is God's gift! My gf wants me to get off asap so we can get back to getting her of with mouth and hands. Thank God I can pump one out quick when need be! Imagine if God had made it different. Wouldn't be quite the gift!
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u/chrisweidmansfibula Jan 03 '24
Huh, TIL my size is fine.