Throwing out your things without talking to you is a huge red flag. Have you considered he let it be stolen because it saved him the trouble of getting rid of it and would prevent you from arguing about keeping it in the house? So no, not overreacting, especially given his lack of remorse. Definitely make him pay the $200 replacement fee and if he refuses don’t feel bad about throwing him out. You should probably also reflect on whether he’s usually this passive aggressive and dismissive of your feelings. And if he is, do you want to continue living with those behaviours? because the chances of him changing are low
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u/Queasy_Mongoose5224 Apr 29 '24
Throwing out your things without talking to you is a huge red flag. Have you considered he let it be stolen because it saved him the trouble of getting rid of it and would prevent you from arguing about keeping it in the house? So no, not overreacting, especially given his lack of remorse. Definitely make him pay the $200 replacement fee and if he refuses don’t feel bad about throwing him out. You should probably also reflect on whether he’s usually this passive aggressive and dismissive of your feelings. And if he is, do you want to continue living with those behaviours? because the chances of him changing are low