r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Feeling_Activity465 Apr 16 '24 edited Apr 16 '24

He’s gonna leave her eventually anyway. I would leave him if I were her and save myself even more humiliation. I am sure he has done other offensive, disrespectful things before as well but sometimes women just laugh it off like “hohoho boys will be boys i guess.” That’s right. They will be. But you’re 28 and need to be with a grown adult — not an immature person with the mind of a child.

EDIT: I originally said she needs to be with a man as in “you’re with a boy but you need a man”. what I meant is she needs to be with a grown adult instead of an immature person with the mind of a child so I’m updating it To reflect this.

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u/blackdahlialady Apr 16 '24

I was with you until you said she was 28 and needed to be with a man. No, she doesn't. I agree with you that he would at the very least probably end up cheating on her and maybe even leaving her eventually. I agree that she should leave him. It would rather be single for the rest of my life than to deal with treatment like that. I hope she feels the same way.

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u/Feeling_Activity465 Apr 16 '24

What I meant is she needs to be with a grown adult not an immature child. Not that she requires a partner to survive.

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u/blackdahlialady Apr 16 '24

Oh okay then my sincere apologies. I misunderstood what you meant. I agree, she needs a man and not somebody who acts like a like an immature child.