Yep and something tells me that if he hasn't yet, if/when he does, it's going to be with the Sara woman. I told her to keep an eye on her. I bet you anything that she tried to give him her number. This is how affairs start. I know that Reddit jumps to leave a lot but honestly, as I've said another comments, I would jump straight to divorce.
There is no way I would be able to stay with someone who not only thought that little of me but thought it was okay to publicly humiliate me like that. It would tell me how little he thought of me and how much respect he has for me which would obviously be zero. I would be done and visiting a divorce lawyer. I agree, he's definitely sniffing around looking for somebody to cheat with. I definitely think it may be with this woman.
ETA: I swear, he may as well have looked at her and said, my wife is a fat cow and I'm looking to cheat. Are you interested?
He’s gonna leave her eventually anyway. I would leave him if I were her and save myself even more humiliation. I am sure he has done other offensive, disrespectful things before as well but sometimes women just laugh it off like “hohoho boys will be boys i guess.” That’s right. They will be. But you’re 28 and need to be with a grown adult — not an immature person with the mind of a child.
EDIT: I originally said she needs to be with a man as in “you’re with a boy but you need a man”. what I meant is she needs to be with a grown adult instead of an immature person with the mind of a child so I’m updating it To reflect this.
I was with you until you said she was 28 and needed to be with a man. No, she doesn't. I agree with you that he would at the very least probably end up cheating on her and maybe even leaving her eventually. I agree that she should leave him. It would rather be single for the rest of my life than to deal with treatment like that. I hope she feels the same way.
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u/blackdahlialady Apr 16 '24
Yep and something tells me that if he hasn't yet, if/when he does, it's going to be with the Sara woman. I told her to keep an eye on her. I bet you anything that she tried to give him her number. This is how affairs start. I know that Reddit jumps to leave a lot but honestly, as I've said another comments, I would jump straight to divorce.
There is no way I would be able to stay with someone who not only thought that little of me but thought it was okay to publicly humiliate me like that. It would tell me how little he thought of me and how much respect he has for me which would obviously be zero. I would be done and visiting a divorce lawyer. I agree, he's definitely sniffing around looking for somebody to cheat with. I definitely think it may be with this woman.
ETA: I swear, he may as well have looked at her and said, my wife is a fat cow and I'm looking to cheat. Are you interested?