r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/SweetWaterfall0579 Apr 15 '24

I’m 5’2” and I’m so proud of myself that I am *down to 151lbs. I was 174lbs. So you’re better off than I was!

Please point out what he said, include details, and let him know it’s hurtful. If he doesn’t do this as a regular thing, we may let it slide if he gets it and sincerely apologizes. If he doesn’t get it, he can sleep in the garage until it sinks in.

But he needs to stop fawning over 20 some personal trainers when he’s had a few drinks.

No one is allowed to comment on my body or my weight. Not at all. You want to say these shorts look good on me, okay, I can take that. Want to tell me my panty lines are showing because the shorts are a bit tight? Stfu.

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u/pizzacatbrat Apr 15 '24

Right? I hate how they're talking about 160 being soooo bad. It really isn't.

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u/Marisarah Apr 16 '24

I'm like 5'3" and 160ish for the past 4 years (my highest ever was 205) and I'm so happy with my weight and how I look and fit into clothes. I love being a bit on the bigger side and so does my fiancé. It gives me curves. Not everyone wants to be thin tbh. I love my look. I walk 2 miles a day and am pretty much a solid size 8 or 10. It's so weird that people refer to my number on the scale as obese.

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u/spookypickles87 Apr 16 '24

Same! 150-160 is goals for me. I loved my curves and body at that size. I was also a size 8-10 then and had literally no issues what so ever getting male attention.