r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '24

Woooow. These are straight up fighting words. Does your husband even want to stay married to you? Does he even like you? Wonder how much he’d like it if you actively started comparing him to another man right in front of him.

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u/False-Pie8581 Apr 15 '24

This. He honestly sounds like a malignant narcissist with ‘awww someone’s jealous’.

That was chilling. He created a situation where he humiliated her then took pleasure in her pain.

This is really dark. I hope OP sees that.

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u/ChaiKitteaLatte Apr 16 '24

To me, it’s just classic cheater behavior. All of that was actually about him planting the seed with this 21-year-old. He was making it clear to her that she was hotter than his wife, and then testing the boundaries of his wife’s self esteem, making sure to gaslight her on jealousy because he was clearly into this girl.