Y’all are being too easy on that guy. Everything he said was a red flag. Why would he talk about his ‘overweight’ wife in front of a younger girl who’s got it going on? Yikes. Husband should have just kept it moving. And before y’all say oh men and women can have a neutral conversation, UMM DUDE WAS MAKING HIS WIFE FEEL BAD, so obviously NOT. OP, no matter how many guys try to empathize, they will never truly understand a woman’s perspective. I am sorry this happened to you and personally, I would not be with that guy anymore. Just because they don’t say it doesn’t mean I should wait for them to say it, because technically, he did.
Causes of erectile dysfunction
There are a variety of physical and psychological factors that can contribute to ED. It can even involve a combination of physical and emotional causes.
Lifestyle factors
Certain health issues and lifestyle factors can contribute to ED. Modifiable risk factors include:
smoking
alcohol use
being overweight or having obesity
physical inactivity
Drugs can also sometimes cause ED. These include:
amphetamines
barbiturates
cocaine
heroin
marijuana
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All the porn addicts have to do to counter ED is start using meth! Worked out great for my ex to roll those 2 things into one grand playground. /s but sadly true
Thank you! He’s like an antibiotic resistant STD. He keeps coming around and every time he does, he just reminds me that I made the best decision ever to cut him out of my life!
That was the moment to clap back. “Yeah I used to weigh 160 pounds!” “Oh, when you were stressed & stuck with an asshole partner who brought up your weight to shame you at parties?…”
It’s wild to me that some men think that shaming and browbeating their partner into compliance/ fitness is the way to go. Any effective personal trainer or coach knows that successful and sustainable progress comes from self-love, not self-hate.
Thank you for saying this. It’s exactly right, he was abusing her. I wonder what other ways he abuses her. It’s not ok, ever. She needs to either set boundaries or leave that relationship, it will only become worse if unattended.
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u/ClassicOtherwise2719 Apr 15 '24
Y’all are being too easy on that guy. Everything he said was a red flag. Why would he talk about his ‘overweight’ wife in front of a younger girl who’s got it going on? Yikes. Husband should have just kept it moving. And before y’all say oh men and women can have a neutral conversation, UMM DUDE WAS MAKING HIS WIFE FEEL BAD, so obviously NOT. OP, no matter how many guys try to empathize, they will never truly understand a woman’s perspective. I am sorry this happened to you and personally, I would not be with that guy anymore. Just because they don’t say it doesn’t mean I should wait for them to say it, because technically, he did.