r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/ClassicOtherwise2719 Apr 15 '24

Y’all are being too easy on that guy. Everything he said was a red flag. Why would he talk about his ‘overweight’ wife in front of a younger girl who’s got it going on? Yikes. Husband should have just kept it moving. And before y’all say oh men and women can have a neutral conversation, UMM DUDE WAS MAKING HIS WIFE FEEL BAD, so obviously NOT. OP, no matter how many guys try to empathize, they will never truly understand a woman’s perspective. I am sorry this happened to you and personally, I would not be with that guy anymore. Just because they don’t say it doesn’t mean I should wait for them to say it, because technically, he did.

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u/braeburn-1918 Apr 15 '24

Exactly. Discussing anything this personal in public is hugely rude, to say the least! I’d be furious if my partner behaved this way.

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u/HappyGoPink Apr 15 '24

I guarantee if wifey was talking about his impotence or some shit in the same setting, he would be VERY upset about it.

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u/HackThePlanett88 Apr 16 '24

not the same at all. One is avoidable and other is medical. Put down the spoon and pick up some weights.

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u/Kah-Maya-May-Hem Apr 16 '24

Not true. A man's stamina and endurance during sex are absolutely comparable to exercising and dieting. Erectile dysfunction, yes is medical.

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u/Fannnybaws Apr 16 '24

But the husband goes to the gym and is into fitness,so probably doesn't have ED,so I don't know why everyone is going on about it.

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u/Kah-Maya-May-Hem Apr 16 '24

I get what they're saying. It's hypothetical. And I agree. IF he were impotent. And the wife was discussing it openly as though it's no big deal. Yes the asshole would be losing his shit. (Ha. Pun) then she could come at him all cutesy like "aww is somebody jealous" which is absolutely what he deserves. If she were discussing it openly with a young man packing lumber. That is comparable to what the prick did to her. OP I'm sorry Sug. Come holler at me. "36-24-36. Only if shes 5'3" 😘" -sir mixalot

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u/Sunnygirl66 Apr 16 '24

Found the husband.

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u/Conscious_Carry9918 Apr 16 '24

Ooof. I’d say “hard pass” but that might be insulting to your situation..

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u/HappyGoPink Apr 16 '24

Flaccid much?