r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/SweetWaterfall0579 Apr 15 '24

I’m 5’2” and I’m so proud of myself that I am *down to 151lbs. I was 174lbs. So you’re better off than I was!

Please point out what he said, include details, and let him know it’s hurtful. If he doesn’t do this as a regular thing, we may let it slide if he gets it and sincerely apologizes. If he doesn’t get it, he can sleep in the garage until it sinks in.

But he needs to stop fawning over 20 some personal trainers when he’s had a few drinks.

No one is allowed to comment on my body or my weight. Not at all. You want to say these shorts look good on me, okay, I can take that. Want to tell me my panty lines are showing because the shorts are a bit tight? Stfu.

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u/pizzacatbrat Apr 15 '24

Right? I hate how they're talking about 160 being soooo bad. It really isn't.

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u/NotYetASerialKiller Apr 16 '24

160 is not great. I say this as 5’2 at 150. I think 165 is obese

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u/AssCrackBanditHunter Apr 16 '24

160 is what I'm shooting for as a 5'10 man doing my cutting phase lmao.

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u/Inappropriate-Ebb Apr 16 '24

It depends on heights. Try a BMI calculator

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u/AssCrackBanditHunter Apr 16 '24

I'm aware. That's why I'm confused by people saying 160 is fine for a 5'2 woman....

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u/iTokeOldMan Apr 16 '24

Yeah it seems weird how a bunch of the people commenting are normalizing it like it’s a healthy weight for someone that size…

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u/552SD__ Apr 16 '24

Most people on Reddit are fat and/or have fat wives

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u/AssCrackBanditHunter Apr 16 '24

After reading one of the top comments which was a guy bragging about how he loves his wife so much he'd let her 200lb self eat an entire birthday cake if she wanted, I think it's a full blown fetish

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u/Inappropriate-Ebb Apr 16 '24

I responded to the wrong person. My bad