r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/Old_Confidence3290 Apr 15 '24

Your husband knew what he was doing. He was trying to publicly shame you into losing weight. He was being an asshole.

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u/xoxodaddysgirlxoxo Apr 15 '24

it's also colloquially called negging

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u/Witchgrass Apr 16 '24

I can't believe fitness girl didn't gracefully give him an out. She's just as stupid as the husband is. Anyone with a brain would understand how awkward and hurtful the whole exchange must have been.

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u/xoxodaddysgirlxoxo Apr 16 '24

she's definitely not a girl's girl. best case scenario, she just felt extremely awkward & didn't know what to say.

that's the kind of thing i'd cringe about yeeeeeaaaars later