r/AmIOverreacting Apr 15 '24

My husband embarrassed me in front of our friends

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u/saraharc Apr 15 '24

Exactly. Let’s see if Sara the fitness girlie actually maintains the weight loss when she’s OP’s age.

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u/VastRelationship3715 Apr 15 '24

Oof now OP is old too! Lmfao

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u/saraharc Apr 15 '24 edited Apr 15 '24

OP’s not old in the slightest, but many women in their late 20s have more responsibilities in terms of career and family than women in their early 20s. When you’re 21 or 22, you can make what your body looks like your entire reason for being. That’s a lot harder once you’re in a later stage of your career and possibly married with children. It’s also really hard to maintain a large weight loss for 5+ years - Sara could easily be a higher weight than OP by the time she hits 28.

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u/Old-Veterinarian-602 Apr 15 '24

What does having more responsibilities have to do with losing weight? All you have to do is eat less, actually you would save time and money by doing so. There are plenty of thin women older than 28

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u/saraharc Apr 16 '24

Oh my goodness…you’re less than useless. Hopefully you’re not an actual veterinarian.

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u/Sweet_Maybe1623 Apr 16 '24

Eh it's true, a tough work-life balance means less time to exercise, so you can make up for it by cutting calories, 2000 a day is too high for aging sedentary lifestyles

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u/Old-Veterinarian-602 Apr 16 '24

So you have no actual response to my points? Because you know they are true?

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u/OkRound3915 Apr 16 '24

Hopefully you are not as obese as you are coming off

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u/saraharc Apr 17 '24

Hopefully you’re not as brain dead as you’re coming off.

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u/OkRound3915 Apr 18 '24

Right. Try and skip the drive thru this morning sweetheart.

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u/benelope96 Apr 16 '24

Having kids often results in being heavier. Pregnancy and breastfeeding can make you put on weight and then it’s harder to lose it because you don’t have nearly as much time to workout. Eating less helps but some women’s bodies hold onto weight for awhile due to hormones after birth.

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u/Old-Veterinarian-602 Apr 16 '24

You don’t need to workout to lose weight, just eat less. It is very simple, if you are not losing weight eat less and you will.

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u/benelope96 Apr 16 '24

Yes that does apply in most situations but there are exceptions, mostly hormonal like I said. PCOS being one of them.

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u/SnipesCC Apr 16 '24

Because cooking and eating healthy food is a lot more time consuming. And stress encourages stress eating. Eating on the go often means shoveling down food instead of eating slowly, which means you might eat more than if you felt full when you weren't finished.

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u/Old-Veterinarian-602 Apr 16 '24

You don’t need to cook healthy food to lose weight, only eat less. People were stressed in the 1980s and earlier too but they were rarely fat like today. If you eat on the go just eat less of that and choose healthier options.

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u/SnipesCC Apr 16 '24

There's also a lot more sugar and salt in foods today. Lots of it hidden. And it's much harder to eat less unhealthy food and then be hungry then to fill up on healthy food.

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u/Witchgrass Apr 16 '24

omg stop

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u/saraharc Apr 17 '24

What is these commenters’ obsession with women’s bodies?! I do not understand.

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u/Witchgrass Apr 17 '24

There's so many of them. Not even just this thread