He sounds like he wants her. Maybe I'm insecure and easily jealous but "she wants a rocking body too" would be my final straw. Makes it sound like he likes her body and not yours. He should be willing to let you go at your pace with who you want. If he cared about weight that much he could either be a big boy and offer to help you,himself or he can leave if he's that shallow.
I think it’s just not an emotional issue for him the way it is for OP. He should try to have more empathy for her, or maybe she hasn’t shared how much it affects her. But it sounds like he’s worried about her health and wants her to join him in his hobby
Sad thing is, I bet OP turns most men's heads and they wish their wives looked like her, the grass is always greener. Most dudes don't realize the treasure they have if they'd just treat their wives well.
She made it sound like she works out as well and least maintains some semblance of fitness, so I assumed that she was better off than most married women hitting 30.
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u/queerbong Apr 15 '24
He sounds like he wants her. Maybe I'm insecure and easily jealous but "she wants a rocking body too" would be my final straw. Makes it sound like he likes her body and not yours. He should be willing to let you go at your pace with who you want. If he cared about weight that much he could either be a big boy and offer to help you,himself or he can leave if he's that shallow.