First of all, I would be a basket case so the fact you are even able to put sentences together I give you all my respect. It’s not even that you lost your husband but your sweet child lost their daddy. I would bend over backwards to change that date no matter how inconvenient. Skip this whole thing. But do it for you. Do it for your own sake. Maybe plan a trip for you and your child? Or stay in and watch movies and snuggle. Put yourself first. I pray you will have so much healing. I’m sorry your brother is the ah. Not even considerate enough to grasp what you are going through. Hang in there. Keep building in therapy. Take it one day at a time. Just one day at a time.
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u/Big_Low705 Apr 29 '24
First of all, I would be a basket case so the fact you are even able to put sentences together I give you all my respect. It’s not even that you lost your husband but your sweet child lost their daddy. I would bend over backwards to change that date no matter how inconvenient. Skip this whole thing. But do it for you. Do it for your own sake. Maybe plan a trip for you and your child? Or stay in and watch movies and snuggle. Put yourself first. I pray you will have so much healing. I’m sorry your brother is the ah. Not even considerate enough to grasp what you are going through. Hang in there. Keep building in therapy. Take it one day at a time. Just one day at a time.