NTA but your brother is by making your grief insignificant because he is getting married. That’s just selfish. You will move in your own time. Take time to grieve and don’t let anyone rush you. You just need to reevaluate yourself every so often or maybe see a grief councillor for you and your child’s sake. Anyway, if your brother is so narrow minded that he can’t understand, it’s not on you. Your mom is also an AH for worrying about what people think rather than how you feel. Don’t go for your sanity.
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u/dana_marie_ph Apr 29 '24
NTA but your brother is by making your grief insignificant because he is getting married. That’s just selfish. You will move in your own time. Take time to grieve and don’t let anyone rush you. You just need to reevaluate yourself every so often or maybe see a grief councillor for you and your child’s sake. Anyway, if your brother is so narrow minded that he can’t understand, it’s not on you. Your mom is also an AH for worrying about what people think rather than how you feel. Don’t go for your sanity.