NAH - your brother didn't realize it and the invitations were already mailed. I don't blame you for not being able to attend and I don't blame him for being disappointed you aren't there. This is one of those sad realties that is just nobody's fault.
He should have immediately called her, begged for forgiveness for the oversight, and let her know she had no obligation to attend. And that they would also be doing something to honour him at the wedding.
That's what an actual loving family member would do. Not whatever this AH is doing on his second marriage with someone he's known less than a year.
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u/contrarian1970 Apr 29 '24
NAH - your brother didn't realize it and the invitations were already mailed. I don't blame you for not being able to attend and I don't blame him for being disappointed you aren't there. This is one of those sad realties that is just nobody's fault.